and on this sunny summery splendid day...

Ed and I pay some modest attention to the farmette lands, we then take a short hike through the county park, and in the afternoon, Snowdrop comes to play. After, Ed and I sow a field of alyssum seeds. Then, in the later evening, I catch a bus to Chicago.

Remember how late spring was this year? Well, it more than caught up with itself. At a galloping pace, it raced through the early stages of the season and then plunged right into summer-like weather. Today's high is 87F (31C). Do we mind? Of course not: in May, warm air feels good! Sunshine is delightful! The shedding of long sleeved, long legged, long anything is grand!

But the arrival of the first bugs -- well, we could do without that.

In the garden, the race is on for which plant blooms next. There are plenty of peony buds, just a breath away from popping open.





But I think the next show off plant is the iris. I will be very surprised if we don't have delightful bearded German girls coming into full bloom this weekend.

And right alongside of the iris, we have Baptista -- the false indigo, making an appearance in all my flower beds. It can be blue, it can be purple, or it can be yellow. It's delicate and oh so very pretty!






Breakfast, this time not too late...


 


... followed by a little more garden work: a few weeds come out, the peas (so far untouched by the groundhog and rabbit families living under the wood pile!) get a sprinkle of water. That's it.

All this gives us time for a ramble in the county park. Nothing ambitious. Just a quick look, now that the browns have receded and the greens have taken hold. Remember when I dangled the camera from Ed's favorite oak tree for a cross country skiing selfie of the both of us? Well now, here's the spring version.






The pond where the turtles, ducks and geese hang out is a showcase of greens.






So is the main path through the park: we ski here whenever there is snow. Today, there is no snow.





We cut across to the prairie segment of the park. It's not really splendid yet and perhaps it never really is splendid. Prairies need attention -- from nature or you, take your pick. This one looks like it could profit from a fire. But the birds like it!






And now I am at the little girl's school. Snowdrop is in fine spirits: they're finishing off "nap time" in the playground and she is thrilled that I remembered to bring her sunglasses. It's quite bright outside.

(She and her teacher pose with their sun shades)






At the farmette, Snowdrop once again asks to pick a tulip. They're nearly spent, but I probably would have said yes anyway. I remember the childhood pleasure of holding a flower clipped from the garden.






Snowdrop is satisfied!





There isn't even a question: this is pool weather! I had commented to Ed that this kiddie pool is really to infantile for her. True, she can spend a long time pouring water  between cups and splashing everything in sight, but I am tempted by something bigger. I've resisted because once the bugs come out full force, it's not fun to sit there chasing away mosquitoes.
Why don't you put it on the porch?
She needs something bigger.
Sell the grill and put a bigger pool there. Ed never wants to acquire anything without giving up something first.

No one is going to buy a rusty old grill...

Within an hour, the grill, which I never use anymore because it's just too much trouble, is on Craigslist and we have three offers for it. Next week we'll be carrying buckets of water to fill "something bigger" on the porch.

But today Snowdrop is in love with splashing madly in the little one. And isn't it the perfect place to eat watermelon? Drips are easily washed away...






Snowdrop, it's getting late. We really should go inside.
I get a big wallop of water sprayed on me. Gaga, I'm busy splashing!






"I'm making jump ropes!"





Yes you are.


It's nearly midnight now and I am in my room in Chicago. There's that familiar view onto the city, from a somewhat a lower floor this time. I wont take out my camera -- you've seen it.

Tomorrow, I'll be spending time with the littlest of the little girls in my life.

Wednesday

It's amazing how much there is to do in a garden that is "all finished" and ostensibly ready for action. As Ed and I both walk the path to the barn in the early morning, we get distracted -- by the new batch of weeds, by the timber that needs a haul, by the landscape timber I want under the crab apple, by the two last day lilies that need a home, by the last packets of seeds, by the bush that has been begging for a trim for about ten years, by the tree seedlings: buckthorn, box elder, maple, all wanting to take over the world if you let them, by the cat that comes calling and the chicks that want a handful of corn. And so our morning walk to the barn and back, instead of taking five minutes, lasts about three hours.

(Young chicks, perching on a flower support fence. Oh, but I love these three little girls!)






(The tulips are almost finished, the anemone came back beautifully this year, and the lavender -- well, it's a new one and so even though it's May, it's at full bloom.)






Breakfast is very late. (On the porch, just being set up now...)





It is once again a beautiful and warm day. Unfortunately, people are starting to talk of mosquitoes and it is true, we've caught sight of one or two. They're not a bother yet, but they surely will be and so I work extra hard, thinking that soon it wont be so pleasant to spend the whole day buried in bushes, or pushing around dense lily leaves.


Afternoon. I'm excited to be picking up Snowdrop! A day like this offers so many play possibilities! 

But when I come in to fetch the little one, I find her significantly dispirited.  For a three year old, it can't always be a smooth ride in school (I suppose this is the case for anyone at any age) and she has had a few bumps in her day. Rather than seeing her default smile, I find her full of tears. She just wants to curl up in a comfy place and feel good again.

I've been through twelve years of school and many years of preschool with my kids and so I can't possibly be surprised that a day may feel wobbly every now and then.





But, it isn't hard to restore peace in the little girl's heart. Spring is awesome, the day is magnificent and most important -- I have in the fridge a bowl full of red delicious cherries.

We are in the thick of cherry season! And Snowdrop loves cherries!

We read the book that she loved last year in May and that she double loves this year, now that she can get so much more of the cadence and nuance of the text (Cherries and Cherry Pits -- a book that I read to my daughters when they were young). And of course, she eats lots of cherries. And I ask her if she would like to go out and inspect the wee green cherries that are emerging in our young orchard. Yes she would!

(Distracted by the dandelion puffs)






(She is appreciative -- of the dandelions, the young cherries, the asparagus that grows wild here...)






And she notices that I have set up her wading pool. That was before I retrieved her in such a discombobulated state. In fact though, the wading pool is just the distraction she needs. Especially when she learns that I have found a swim suit for her that has... cherries! It's the little things that bring forth a smile, no?






She spends some time playing outside the pool too and the little girls just adore following her.






...everywhere.






Out of the blue, Snowdrop announces that she wants to climb a tree. Well now. I suggest a change of clothing. My backup pair of shorts hasn't arrived yet, but she is happy to pretend that summer p.j. bottoms are shorts. Good. Off we go to the Norway pines. Surely I can help hoist her up on the branches there?






No. It's a rough climb. We give it a try, but in the end, she prefers a moment in the grass, with dandelions all around her.






The day ends with bucketfuls of laughter and a wild indoor game of ball.





Snowdrop goes home, Ed goes for a Wednesday night bike ride. I'm left in the farmhouse watching the evening set in.There may be better things in life than watching a beautiful May day turn into a beautiful May night. I can't think of many right now.

Tuesday

If you sequester yourself inside just because the day is gray, sticky and uninviting,  then you may miss the spell of sunshine and warmth that appears unexpectedly.

And what if that spell of sunshine isn't a brief spell after all? What if it decides to stay with you all afternoon long, despite dire predictions of clouds, fog, drizzle and all combinations of an otherwise bleak day? I'm just trying to say that you should always consider the possibility of a good outcome. Not all predictions of gloom are going to be accurate.

One short sentence says it all: we were to have an overcast day. And then, boom! Just as I left to pick up Snowdrop at school, the sun poked through, eventually pushing all clouds aside.

I could spend many words describing this wonderful transformation, but I think I'll let the photos tell the story.

Early morning. Green, lush, damp. A deer comes over to consider the possibilities.






The young chicks find their way in between clumps of flowers.






All is green. It's that time when there are few blooms. But oh, who could doubt that we have an abundance of flowers?!






A last clump of tulips:






And now the sun comes out -- just as I am picking up the girl. We walk over to the playground!






How many times have I wheeled her over here in the last three years? One hundred? More?

This year, blowing off the dandelion seeds from a puff is a piece of cake!











Pause for a pain au chocolat snack.






The skies are so blue! The colors -- so magnificent!






Snowdrop is hugely expressive. It's funny that she is such a chatterbox. She hardly needs words to tell you what she is feeling.






At least half of our afternoon is spent in the farmhouse. And I do have one photo from this lively indoor period.






But honestly, in so many ways, our day belongs to our time out in the sunshine today. You could say that each and every one of us benefited from the unexpected surprise of sunshine and gloriously blue skies.

(Here's a late day photo of all our animals pals: old cheepers, young chicks, and Stop Sign.)






Oh, and then there's the two of us...





Delighting in all of it.

Monday

I think rainy days mess with Ed's otherwise cautiously conservative attitude toward acquisitions. Typically, he does not look to add anything to his life, or to the farmette. But this morning, as I slowly wake to the patter of rain on the rooftop, I'm hearing Ed throw out this question -- do you know that muscovy ducks are not at all like ducks?

I respond with a more pragmatic query: you haven't fed the chickens yet, have you? It's rhetorical. Ed is always in bed after me and never out of it before me.

No. But listen, muscovy ducks are really unusual.
Where is all this coming from?  -- I ask.
I've been reading about them. I'm looking for ways to control bugs. Did you know muscovies are great bug catchers?

I go out into a wet but enchanting landscape to feed the cheepers.





The three big girls brave the rain and run with me to the barn.

But where are the three little girls?

I look everywhere. I mean, I've been through this before. But I'm an expert looker now and besides, these days they always come running when they see me coming to the feeding stations in the morning.

I walk the land carefully -- around the house, around the sheepshed, calling, calling... Nothing.

Back in the farmhouse, I tell Ed -- I think we've lost them.
All three? That can't be!
I have looked everywhere.

He comes out, we look together. Carefully. Nothing.

It's such a sudden thing: here yesterday, gone today. What predator grabbed all three??

Ed is sullen. I guess you're right. They're gone. Let me just go check the orchard.
You know that's pointless. (No chicken ever goes there -- it's a bit remote.)

And lo! There they are! Why? Because yesterday, we weeded and tilled the land by the grapes and this, along with the rains, brought out the worms. The girls are soaked, but happily picking them out in the rows of planted buckwheat.

Why didn't you come when I called you?! I scold them, with that flood of relief that comes from finding out that all is well in your small wee world. (Of course, they did not come because they did not hear me -- the orchard is over an incline.)

We eat breakfast with great relief.





And we come back to the discussion of ducks. Not just any ducks -- muscovies.
Ed is enthusiastic.
I'm apprehensive. We can't anticipate all that might go wrong. Still, I read about their friendly nature, about their quirky habits, their wagging tails, their utter cuteness, and I waffle.

We go back and forth, all morning long, reaching no conclusion. And yet, when I study the summer before me, I firmly believe that there is no room for anything that is either challenging or out of the ordinary.


In the afternoon, I pick up Snowdrop.





The girl is spirited and happy, despite the long day, lack of rest and the cold, wet weather outside.

Neither of us wants to play outdoors. We've had days of sunshine and afternoons of splashing in the pool. Today's high of 58F (14C) is just not that attractive.

As I come in dripping wet, laden down with her school bags, shoes, coats and lunch boxes, I find her engrossed in a book that she clearly cajoled Ed into reading.





It is an afternoon of many, many books for us.

But not only! (I'm showing off my ventriloquist's skills here: did you know that I can make that cardboard doll talk? Well, credibly enough for an audience of one three year old.)






Toward evening, the rains finally subside. I follow Snowdrop (Ukrainian crown and all) outside. It's like setting a pent up little pony loose!






Tomorrow, Snowdrop. Tomorrow we'll explore the great outdoors again. Today? It's a day for reading up on muscovies. Just because.

Sunday

In the quiet of the day, we're working again.

We're not compelled to be doing something all the time (especially not Ed). It isn't that. I think it's the weather that pushes us so forcefully to be outside. Having spent many months hiding against the cold weather, it seems somehow wasteful now to not let your senses take in all that nature has to offer.

It was to be a cool and wet day, but the rains subsided in the late morning. And I have to say, not only does the rain help my flower beds develop to their fullest potential, it also creates a certain unique beauty now. For instance, I've always thought the lilac looks most sumptuous when the flower heads lean under the weight of the rain drops. Today, after the rains, you'll see more than one photo of the lilac!

(looking out from the porch)






Because really, it's absolutely at its most gorgeous moment exactly now.






Breakfast, however, is indoors. Not long ago, 60F (15C) felt so sweetly warm. Now it feels too chilly for a meal outside. We've become summer spoiled.






Since the rains have moved on, I go out to see what might require my gardening attention. Weeding. Digging out spreading raspberry canes. That's a never ending light job.

In the meantime, Ed has been studying a plant that Natalie's husband Jaime and I rhapsodized about when we visited their greenhouse. It's alyssum, and the smell of it is intoxicating! Like honey poured over a lilac! Ed suggests we sow it in between the tomato bushes (for weed control and to provide more organic matter in the soil). I'm enthusiastic! And while we're studying our tomatoes, we walk over to the old grape vines that we diligently pruned this year to imitate the pruning job I'd observed in Burgundy. The grapes are doing well!

We weed the bed and Ed sows more buckwheat.






All of this is guesswork for us of course and it strikes me that there ought to be on Craigslist a service called "rent a farmer," where a like-minded person who actually has experience growing things comes over to your farmette to review your plans and make suggestions. I can hear her or him now: buckwheat next to grapes? what a terrible idea! You'll get nothing but beetles and your buckwheat will cave at the sight of all those thistles!

But, we proceed in blissful ignorance, with knowledge gained only from my vague memories of Polish village life, supplemented by youtube clips, possibly made by people who are as clueless about farming as we are.

In the late afternoon, I throw down the shovel and hurry to fix dinner. The young family is back from their Chicago visit and they're coming for supper!

Snowdrop had her soccer game today (she is sporting her lion t-shirt because this is the name of her team)...







... and you'd think she'd want to slow down now and rest, but no! She wants to say hi to the cheepers -- an easy task, as the whole bunch of them are hanging out together by the barn.






(I point out the sweet smell of the lilac... now is the time to learn about the beauty of a spring fragrance!)






(In the meantime, Snowdrop's mommy is looking/feeling very pregnant!)






Dinnertime. Inside, unfortunately, but hey! I love my dining table and we spread out oh so comfortably around it, taking in the whiff of lilacs clipped from the bushes outside.






It's late now. The sun is setting, the young family has long gone home. I tidy a bit, but I'm interrupted in this by Ed, who has been working on some some small planting project outdoors.





Come outside, gorgeous! It's gorgeous now!

I smile at his choice of words. I put down the sudsy sponge and follow him out. We visit with the chickens, then walk over to the edge of the farmette land to survey the construction site. We can't make heads nor tails of it. Truckloads of clay soil have been removed where the farmers once farmed. The plan says this is to be a green belt, but the definition of it is vague. Right now, if you step to the edge of our land, you'll be looking down into a pit at least ten feet deep right before you. One step and you're in it. That can't be the final plan!

Still, we think of the good possibilities that might follow. Perhaps there'll be a lake or a pond sloping from our land. Perhaps the cranes will come and sing their warbly song, in sync with frogs and to the rhythm of dancing dragonflies. We don't know. But as with everything else these days, we are hugely optimistic. Spring does this to you: it opens your eyes to the beauty of an evening, it has you believe that a big hole in the ground may someday be a beautiful lake.