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by Nina Camic
Hey, new readers! If you want a quick summary of how it is that I came to blog, read this:
It is the year 2004. My two daughters are away at college (younger one) and law school (older one). Wow. Suddenly I have time to write! Not big stuff. Little stuff. Bloggy stuff. And so on January 2, I start to post on Ocean. I test styles, I add photos. Things evolve.
Over the years, I tell you just a little about my past life. You’ll have found out that I was born in Poland, but due to my dad’s diplomatic career, I spent some childhood years in New York. Eventually, as a young adult, I moved back to the United States. I married, had kids, went to law school. And after a short stint at a law firm, I came back to the University of Wisconsin Law School, this time as a faculty member.
I taught law for twenty-five years and then took early retirement so that I could hatch new ideas and immerse myself in other projects. In the meantime, my marriage ends, my daughters graduate from law schools (both of them!), life moves forward.
I meet Ed. On line, then in person. Ed is his own guy. Ed is Ed. One date and we are together.
I’m done with suburbs: I live downtown. First in an apartment loft, then a condo. Ed is indifferent to the apartment and hostile to the condo. Ed likes life in his sheep shed. He travels to see me daily, but never tires of calling my brilliantly clever living arrangement ...a dump. (Ed: if I wanted to live in buildings like this, I would have stayed in New York.)
Five years after meeting Ed, I pack up my dwindling belongings and move to a farmhouse on his land (just south of Madison). We renovate it. Ohhhh, the farmhouse needs it! A hundred years of issues. But, Ed has skills and he has time. With the help of a small construction team, the place is patched, mended, finished and (in April of 2011) I move in.
Alright. That’s the chronology. Here’s what else you might want to know: I love our farmette (it's not really a farm anymore), but I am very often on the road. Away. Ed used to tag along. I have been known to call him my occasional travel companion. These days, he prefers to stay home and look after the chickens.
Anything else? My younger daughter lives with her husband and their little ones (Primrose and Juniper) in Chicago, my older one teaches right here at UW in Madison. She and her husband have a little girl (Snowdrop) and two little boys (Sparrow and Sandpiper). This makes me a grandma!
That’s it. Anything else you’ll have to pick up by reading along. Curious about my childhood in postwar Poland? Pick up my book, Like A Swallow!
happy birthday!
ReplyDeleteHappy Birthday little C!
ReplyDeleteTime goes by too fast.
ReplyDeleteHappy birthday to your little one, and I hope the sweet outweighs the bitter in your nostalgia. Oh, how it tugs at your heart to see how they used to be! And mine are nowhere near 21, they're not that far from babyhood themselves, but I still know how you feel, a little.
Holy crap, so cute! Happy bday, C!
ReplyDeleteon behalf of the little maiden -- thanks all. No Joan, not a single note of bitterness.
ReplyDeleteBrando, I'm not sure what to think about January 19th being your day as well. But hey, as I wrote on your blog -- you'll be second in line to get a special toast from me tonight. Other commenters will be third, fourth and fifth. A few more and I'll have to find a nice spot under the table, just like y'all who are celebrating this eve...
Dearest Nina,
ReplyDeleteThey may be grown, but they will always be your babies.
Best wishes to your little one for her birthday and hugs for you.
oh, thank you, commenters! and mommy -- I love you so much and I can't wait to see you very soon.
ReplyDeletelove you,
c
Enjoy yourself!
ReplyDelete(and then the comment brought the tune into my head--of course, I only truly know the two title words, as it was an instrumental for our band, with an awesome bari. sax part to bust through the rest.)
This version seems appropriate, perhaps.
http://www.thespecials.com/lyricview.php?sid=19
Thanks for prompting the associations. Have a grand celebration!
Happy birthday, c!
Wow, that has to be one of the most adorable photos I have ever seen in my life. Happy birthday to its subject!
ReplyDeleteWow, is that a cute kid. I can't get my mind around the fact that my own little guy will be 21 someday. Come to think of it, I can't believe he's going to be three! Happy birthday to her.
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