Sunday, October 23, 2005

From Connecticut: apples and orange, redux

As a kid living in the city (there is only one city, come on, we all know that), I looked forward to the rare Sundays that we would head out for the country. Typically we would drive no further than Connecticut, where we would find some roadside stand selling apples, stock up (because these were what, fresher than city apples?) and return home.

My parents weren’t into holidays much and so pumpkins were not an option. Cider, yes, we’d get cider too.

For the past several years I have been coming to Connecticut in the month of October and each time, if the weather is good, I take whichever daughter has time, up to the orchards north of New Haven. I have always wondered if the place we typically go to is the same that I stopped at some forty-five years ago.

In a complete turn around, the weather turned brilliantly lovely on the Coast (it will rain again once I leave tomorrow, but for now – the skies are magnificent). Red apples, orange pumpkins, blue skies – I could not ask for a better set up. Yet it is the kids’ faces that made me take out the camera most.

Of course, everything is more crowded in coastal Connecticut. At the Green’s, south of Madison, my friend and I were the only visitors last Thursday. Here, they needed someone to direct traffic.

I’m sure most of the kids running around the pumpkin patch were city kids. I could see myself in them. Me, kickin’ pumpkin ass, stuffing myself with apples, preferably covered with caramel (I had a swe
et tooth). Me, wanting to take a pumpkin home. Me, loving the feel of the “country.”


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bundled up for the brisk country air


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a day in the fields; take a picture!


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city brats, taking it all in, the apple trees, the rocks...


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even the apple branch is crowded in this part of the country


The last photo is from the town square in nearby Guilford. But I needn't have identified it -- there are a million hints that this is indeed Connecticut: the colors and styles of the houses, the age and nature of the foliage, the suspended elctrical wires. Connecticut, aging gracefully in coastal towns, less so in the larger cities.

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8 comments:

  1. I predict you will move east within 3 years. Why stay where you are not happy?

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  2. Anonymous -- do you have a name?

    Why do you think I am not happy in Madison? Because I also find joy in being elsewhere?

    I think Madison is perfect for me right now. I do like to go away frequently, but when I lived out East, I left even more frequently because everything was much closer. I admit to being a restless sort.

    Frankly, my work, which I love, will keep me in Madison. Only if my daughters settled permanently elsewhere would I consider moving. But there is no such thing as "permanently" in this country, so this is an unlikely outcome.

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  3. Again, my bet is 3 years.

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  4. I don't mind your comment, anonymous, but I do mind your stubborn refusal to give yourself a name. It is a small favor, but I ask this of you.

    I am about to put forth a new policy: Anonymous comments will be deleted by me.I just don't want to have the kind of blog where the Anonymous take over the comments.

    I don't post on blogs where they rule and I don't want them to rule here.

    Sorry if I sound brusk, but Ocean is my baby and I get to make up the rules.

    You can disguise yourself from others, but I need to know who you are or phewttt!!! off you go.

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  5. Could the initials perhaps be NC?

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  6. Ann: I have never ever posted a comment on my blog without signing as Nina. Pinky swear.

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  7. I've never done it either, but I can see how tempting it would be to create a persona to argue with myself. I could even see starting up a blog, maybe calling it Antagonizing Althouse. It would be so amusing and easy to get the jump on any criticisms and to point out foibles and secret motivations.

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  8. Ann: I had once tried posting anonymously on someone else's blog and found the whole experience so terribly unsatisfying that I decided I would never pollute the waters of Ocean in this way. Having suffered the consequences and enjoyed the benefits of keeping my own identity, I see no point in cheating and posting comments as another. I am curious what others are thinking. I know what I am thinking.

    But your idea of a different kind of blog is cool. Arguing with yourself. Everyone assumes that what is written is the final word and of course it never is. There is almost always an ongoing internal debate.

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