And then I wrote some more.
I sometimes think that he’d like these things to happen, just so he can learn how to fix the damage.
It's a beautiful night out there on the porch. Inside as well.
by Nina Camic
Hey, new readers! If you want a quick summary of how it is that I came to blog, read this:
It is the year 2004. My two daughters are away at college (younger one) and law school (older one). Wow. Suddenly I have time to write! Not big stuff. Little stuff. Bloggy stuff. And so on January 2, I start to post on Ocean. I test styles, I add photos. Things evolve.
Over the years, I tell you just a little about my past life. You’ll have found out that I was born in Poland, but due to my dad’s diplomatic career, I spent some childhood years in New York. Eventually, as a young adult, I moved back to the United States. I married, had kids, went to law school. And after a short stint at a law firm, I came back to the University of Wisconsin Law School, this time as a faculty member.
I taught law for twenty-five years and then took early retirement so that I could hatch new ideas and immerse myself in other projects. In the meantime, my marriage ends, my daughters graduate from law schools (both of them!), life moves forward.
I meet Ed. On line, then in person. Ed is his own guy. Ed is Ed. One date and we are together.
I’m done with suburbs: I live downtown. First in an apartment loft, then a condo. Ed is indifferent to the apartment and hostile to the condo. Ed likes life in his sheep shed. He travels to see me daily, but never tires of calling my brilliantly clever living arrangement ...a dump. (Ed: if I wanted to live in buildings like this, I would have stayed in New York.)
Five years after meeting Ed, I pack up my dwindling belongings and move to a farmhouse on his land (just south of Madison). We renovate it. Ohhhh, the farmhouse needs it! A hundred years of issues. But, Ed has skills and he has time. With the help of a small construction team, the place is patched, mended, finished and (in April of 2011) I move in.
Alright. That’s the chronology. Here’s what else you might want to know: I love our farmette (it's not really a farm anymore), but I am very often on the road. Away. Ed used to tag along. I have been known to call him my occasional travel companion. These days, he prefers to stay home and look after the chickens.
Anything else? My younger daughter lives with her husband and their little ones (Primrose and Juniper) in Chicago, my older one teaches right here at UW in Madison. She and her husband have a little girl (Snowdrop) and two little boys (Sparrow and Sandpiper). This makes me a grandma!
That’s it. Anything else you’ll have to pick up by reading along. Curious about my childhood in postwar Poland? Pick up my book, Like A Swallow!
I was hoping for a picture of you in the tight sweats and the skirt thingy. I'm visualizing it as somewhat like a tutu and tights.
ReplyDeleteIsis looks beautiful approaching among the flowers.
Ohh shower cleaning is such a painful task...last time around I tried Kaboom and it really works, I mean really really works....if you ask me its the best invention ever :)
ReplyDeleteHave a fantastic week ahead..
love all things from the porch...flowers, Isis, daughter, fiance, and the best one, of Ed cleaning the pan. But as Lee said, I think the best one is missing, so you are leaving it to our imaginations!! Another grand day at the farmhouse, I love every one of them. ox
ReplyDeleteLee -- I almost obliged, but the moment passed. There is a lot of necessary imagery for me that goes well with writing. Dressing oddly is one component of it! :)
ReplyDeletePriyanca -- So Ed actually did research (Consumer Reports) on the most effective cleaners (in part to make fun of my preference for the 'natural,' whatever that means, alternatives). Turns out that cheap old Comet outperforms all. So because the shower is white faux marble and because there's barefoot boy Ed using it, I occasionally reach for Comet. At other times, my enzyme based whatever makes me feel happy (and, too, an enzyme based one for the toilet which really smells fantastically awesome). For chrome -- nothing beats vinegar. Always one to try new things, I'll look at Kaboom.
Diane -- always the kind words! Thank you! Looking at your most recent post made me realize that taking self portraits is an art in its own right! Way harder than taking a photo of another.
Many years ago, upon first arriving in DC, I was house sitting. At night I thought dogs had broken in above (my room was in the basement). The noise was so loud. Turns out mice are tiny, but make a huge amount of noise. Hopefully the critters let you sleep without interruption!
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