Wednesday, August 20, 2014

Wednesday

Not all days are free of frustrations and wasted hours -- even retired people, I'm learning, can feel the rug of time pulled from under them so that at the end of the day, all they have to show for it is a plate of leftover zucchini sticks.

But, conversely, all days have glorious moments in them, even if, as in my case, these moments may be rather concentrated. Toward the morning, for example.

So let's talk about the morning!

Ed slept in again and so I went out to set the cheepers free. Isis made me do it. It's an animal pact that they have: Oreo starts crowing, which causes Isis to start meowing, and Oreo just keeps on going, so that Isis wont let up either until someone lets him out. Sometimes he'll want breakfast too. You have to get up, have a conversation with him and only then -- go out to release the cheepers.

But the fact is, the rooster crows oftentimes before sunrise. And whereas some of the hens are ready to get out and scratch and peck and search for chicken gold, others (take Scotch for example) look at you quizzically and appear to be asking -- what? so early? what are you thinking?

So you have rushed to set them free, even as they're perfectly content to stay in the coop until the sun really does rise.

The second problem with getting up and out before sunrise is that you're too early for that beautiful morning sky, all orange and pink and gold that accompanies the moment when the sun greets the world around you.


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(Oreo, waiting for the sunrise)


So you wait a while, but of course, the predawn hours are not a good time to hang out, unless you relish the company of mosquitoes... Wait, did I say the morning gave me my set of good hours??

Well, it did. The sunrise, in the end, was pretty, in a calm, over the-field-and-through-the-woods sort of way...


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(Oreo, satisfied, walks away)


And then I managed to snooze a little more, so that breakfast was late, but lovely (please do not frown at the repetition of the t-shirt on Ed. Let's pretend he just pulled it on for breakfast to annoy me).


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And then chores and petty snafus and frustrations followed, culminating in Ed asking if perhaps I'd like to refrain from cooking tonight, to which I gratefully answered yes, resulting in us having the only fast-food take-out that I ever agree to eat -- Chipotle's. All this, while reading a book on the French eating habits which, BTW, never include fast-food take-out. At least not if my generation has anything to say about it.

I'll leave you with flowers. A late set of day lilies. On fire, in their loveliness!


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11 comments:

  1. About Ed's shirt. My husband has clothes like that. I think it's some kind of macho point of pride. "Look, me strong hard working man!" He does his own yardwork laundry.
    It used to be my habit, as a pre-K teacher, to wear jeans and a black ballet shirt every, I mean every, day. I would buy three of a favorite black shirt and three of another black shirt, and never think twice while I dressed for school. So one day, a little girl said, "You always wear a black shirt. Do you WASH it?" Haha, she probably heard a snarky comment from her mother. Or, i hope, she was just observant and thinking about this issue of her teacher's habit (bad pun intended).
    I still favor black but have branched out quite a bit.

    And the eggplant tart, it was good with lots of garlic and herbs and LOTS of feta. And a robust Argentinian red.

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    1. My husband belongs to the same tribe. He has a flannel shirt that he insists is just getting broken-in, despite being so threadbare you can see through it.

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    2. Ah! Here's the difference my dears: when we just started being together, Ed would at least change his (ratty or new -- it varied) t-shirt every single day. That was then. These days, especially if he hasn't been exerting himself much, you'll see that same shirt come back the next day. And, as the photos indicate, sometimes a third morning. So, not only is it torn, sometimes (too often, acc. to pedantic me) it makes a repeat run. This happens especially when he is behind doing his laundry. And yes, he insists on doing his own laundry. At least I taught him to separate the lights and darks! :)

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  2. Your paragraph about Oreo and Isis causing a random chain of events reads like the children's book "If you give a Mouse a Cookie". Your flowers are still lovely!

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    1. I need to get that book! I am so happy to be delving into kid books again!

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  3. We won't know Ed if he changes that bright yellow shirt that makes him shine like your flowers! What book on French eating? I just finished What French Women Know...really enjoyed it. Sorry about the snafus and frustrations in your day, hoping today is better in that regard!

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    1. It's called French Kids Eat Everything and I like it because the author is an academic so she has a very skeptical approach to the whole subject of discipline, especially as it is practiced in France -- rigidly, with a mind toward egalitarianism and less concern with autonomy. I haven't finished it yet and I predict she'll be a tad more accepting of it (she is spending some time in a village in Brittany with her French husband and 2 daughters), but right now, toward the middle, she is really pushing back!

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  4. My Paul has a lot of shirts like Ed's T shirt. They are shirts he had in high school and the collars are totally work right off them... frayed and limp and holey... but he uses them for work shirts... I can't complain. He's happy which makes me happy. I suspect Ed is happy, too... he is certainly surrounded by a plethora of flowers and beauty including the human kind and the chicken variety!

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    1. Ed is a deeply contented individual! Not a man of extremes. Except when it comes to wearing old, tattered clothing. :)

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  5. Aw, that's nice, Bex! I agree, it does sound like the farmette is a loving home.

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