Typically I give myself an espresso break between classes and it is then that I worry about a photo for the day. But it was so cold! Still, I found one that for me, was evocative and meaningful.
And then I thought about a comment I received on Ocean a few days ago, where the reader accused Ocean of becoming too political because I occasionally mentioned things having to do with the past presidential election (see comments on November 26). And then I thought about how I never write about my work, because, well, I shouldn’t. And how I do not write about my family because it is of utmost importance that I respect their privacy. And how I don’t write about health issues that occasionally plague me because I never want to acknowledge that health issues occasionally plague me (colds do not count – they’re fair game!). And how I may reduce my writing about travel because it bothers some people that I travel and between the two – not traveling and writing less about travel, I prefer the latter. Just to let you know, daily blogging in the way that I do is a tough, tough enterprise.
And so, I thought, gratefully, that there is still this hill outside my office that permits me to take photos that have meaning for me without disturbing anyone.
I’ll say this about today: I finished the semester and as usual, I felt this tug at the throat for all that we had been through, my students and I (in both my classes). If ever I have to stop teaching, I will miss it with a huge part of my heart.
On my way home, I got off the bus too early. I was in a stupor – I was relieved that I did not get a cough attack during classes, the day was done, the semester was done – here I was, riding that warm crowded bus. And so I exited early. But it was worth it. For this lovely (to me) sight:
I understand not blogging about your work or your family -- but those other restrictions? If they're not ones you've devised for your own comfort, ditch them! It's your blog, after all.
ReplyDeleteI'll put in my plea for as much travel writing & photography as you can manage. I so enjoy reading about your adventures. There's a lot to be said for living vicariously.
Nina,
ReplyDeleteHope you feel better soon. It's your page, I read to see/hear you. Use the space in any way that pleases you, I appreciate the window on your life. Bev
I say write what you will.. as little or more that what has been. If someone decides they don't like how little or much is written here.. they can read somewhere else. You keep at it, whatever it is.
ReplyDeleteI liked that you got off too early too, so I could see the photo, if nothing else. And I hope you feel better very soon.
From dental adventures to politics, you've seemed to me a lot more personal here than you were a couple years ago. Because of that, I find myself visiting more frequently. Don't get me wrong, the pictures are great-- even better, though, are the glimpses into your life and thoughts. They make the pictures more vibrant.
ReplyDeleteNina, your dedication to daily blogging is a tribute to your strong character. I am an artist, not a writer, but I know what it is like to produce interesting creative work day after day. A blank page (or canvas) is an intimidating thing to have to face every day. You not only share your thoughts with us, but manage to make beautiful meaningful photos EVERY day. You are one of the best writers I have had the pleasure to read. You don't try to impress. You don't need to. Your talent speaks for itself. You say what is on your mind in simple language -- as if talking to a friend. What could be better than that?
ReplyDeletePlease continue writing about anything you want. It is your blog. My daily visit to ocean is always richly rewarded by thoughtful, honest, heartfelt words and photos.
I like that the main focus of your writings and photos are not about politics, but talking about how hopeful our nation's capitol seems is hardly "political" to the reasonable reader. Please write about anything that you want to share with us -- and especially please keep writing about your travels. Don't let a few spoil sports stop you from writing about an activity you obviously love and write about so well. Your travel writing and photographs are superb. I'm certain your loyal readers agree.
As readers leaving a comment, we have a responsibility to act as if we were a guest in your home. We can join the conversation with friendly comments or stories, even share our troubles, hopes and joys, but we must never complain or say anything to upset our host. We would never feel free to insult a host face-to-face in her own living room. What is it about the internet that lets some of us think we can behave differently just because we have a keyboard between us?
You are not alone in getting complaints -- a photographer friend mentioned in his blog Nikon's announcement of a new top of line pro camera -- the D3X -- at a cost of $8,000 long awaited by professional photographers. He called me last evening in shock from the 25 or so angry, even hateful, comments left on his blog. None of the comments were from professional photographers who look at that huge price as a business expense. The people leaving angry comments are upset at Nikon yet ranting at my friend as if he had anything to do with the price. My friend said if this was the kind of response he got over a new camera, he was happy he stayed away from writing about politics!
P.S. My candidate for President lost. I voted for him because we have been friends for over 25 years and I believe he is a good man and would have been a good president. My vote for John was not intended as a vote against Barack Obama. I am immensely proud of our country and, while watching President Elect Obama give his gracious victory speech on election night, I shed a patriotic tear of joy about the historical significance of what this fine man accomplished. Maybe I look at politics differently because I am an immigrant, but in my view once an election is over the winner becomes the President of the whole country and deserves my support. I too am hopefull. Plus it will be so nice to know the White House will be filled with the laughter of two little girls.
There are readers out there, weeping and gnashing their teeth cuz you're honest-blogging!!!!?
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You know I love your candor both on and off your blog. And, I for one was hoping you'd jump into the political discussion of Mr. Obama being a socialist given your Polish background. But, that's not what your blog is about!
ReplyDeleteDaily life, what got you through the day, beautiful scenery, incredible storytelling sprinkled with glimpes into how you've become the person you are is. Keep at it, and ignore the rest.
I have readdyour blog daily for over 4 years now. Your writing is superb. I enjoy travelling with you and enjoying your photos. Please continue to write as you will - it is your blog and we readers are visitors in your "home". Thank you very much for being here on a daily basis. I love you!!
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I think your "house rules" are perfect for both writer and comment-leavers. My opinion should not count, but if it did, I would hope you continue to surprise.
ReplyDeleteI think you know we're on opposite ends of the political spectrum, but I still enjoy your political posts. You're a talented writer and photographer (and my husband tells me a talented law professor to boot!). Write about whatever strikes your fancy; it's your blog! I know I'll keep reading.
ReplyDeleteThank you all, for such generous comments! I wrote the post last night, when indeed, I felt the threat to my travel blogging. I accept some restrictions -- it comes with the turf when you write openly, using your name. But I resist other restrictions, because I really like diversity here, on Ocean. Unpredictability. New things. Different adventures. Stories about strangers and strange stories about common events. All that.
ReplyDeleteI woke up reading your comments and thinking even before that, that I am committed to proceeding in the way that I have, unless I am told otherwise by powers that be (no, most certainly not Ed and not my family!).
Indeed, Ed and I are setting out this week-end on a trip and I expect to blog. Daily. With great enthusiasm.