Sunday, November 13, 2011

family

A commenter said – and I paraphrase – it’s good that your husband likes to do things around the house.

I think that her husband is a lobsterman.

I want to say – but Ed has never brought home lobster for dinner! Indeed, Ed is not the type that’ll fix dinner at the end of a long day (my long day). And he is not the marrying type. Hasn’t been from birth, he’ll tell you.

And yet, the house is rapidly turning yellow.


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The sky – so luminous again! Verging on storminess, then clearing, then not, then -- who knows, who can tell...


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Our café is closed this afternoon and so we head out elsewhere for coffee, continuing on to Home Depot – the place where we had spent many a free day just a few seasons back. Familiar. I like that.


There was a lot about this weekend that could be improved upon, but not this – not the sense of quiet contentment. Returning home after Home Depot, we saw her, out in the harvested corn fields...


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At home, we unpacked more cans of paint and a new snow shovel. Ed worked late into the evening again...


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... and I grumbled about him wearing torn, dirty painter’s pants to dinner. My daughter and her guy came, we ate, they left and now – I have time to take stock of the good stuff.

Always, at the end of the day, one should take stock of the good stuff.

4 comments:

  1. I am that "commenter" who is married to the lobsterman. Yes, one perk is having lobsters for dinner just about any time I want. Even times I don't want. Yes, you can get sick of lobster if you have it too often. The trouble is that lobster is so expensive, and we are humble folks, we rarely really have it. BUT, if I wanted lobsters once a week, he would bring them home AND he would cook them up because I can't stand listing to them screaming inside the pot!

    Our house needs painting badly, is Ed free for hiring out?

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  2. Bex and Diane, I love you both (even as I never met you, Bex) for making me smile tonight!

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  3. I love how you simply accept Ed for who he is, and love him for it. I'm sure some things are not so easy, but it's good that you can look on the positive at the end of the day.

    The farmhouse is looking great! I'm envious, if there's one thing we really want it's land - land to grow stuff and land for our pets to run and play. And land to give us a little more distance from neighbors.

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