Friday, December 23, 2011

and so

Since when have our cafés become temples of silence, rather than places to talk and banter?

We’re at Paul’s café, our almost daily hangout toward the end of the day. There’s much to toss around and bicker about. For example, Ed is convinced that the best way to prepare fresh winter spinach is to microwave it. I beg to differ. I want to make sure Paul isn’t for a minute convinced that Ed knows the best way to prepare spinach. I get a frown from a patron who is trying to concentrate on her writing. I want to tell her that there is a beautiful library right across the street where silence is golden. But I say nothing. She has won. They all have won. Up and down State Street, Monroe Street, any street in any town, you have to stay quiet. Life demands it.


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Me, I have work too now, finally. The exams are starting to trickle in. I go to campus to pick them up this afternoon (students were still writing this morning) so that I can start the mammoth task of grading, even as most people are thinking jingle thoughts and flooding the malls in search of... something.

They say it will snow tonight. It would be nice to see snow before Ed and I leave next week. Remind me in March that just a few months earlier, I was hoping for snow.

4 comments:

  1. sad really - we visited our favorite coffee shop today - in its new digs - there was some muted conversation - but we read!

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  2. Don't let a frown silence you! When people are together, they must make sounds to communicate. In a world with iPods and earbuds the person with the preference for silence should not win. I used to work in cafés a lot, and at some point -- when the caffeine really kicked in -- I'd find somebody talking annoying. That's why I made a playlist of music to read by and brought headphones. Silence is such a fragile commodity. Anyone who's depending on it needs to provision himself with noise-cancellation headphones.

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  3. Merry Christmas, Nina, and thanks for another year of delightful reads - all the best to you and yours!

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  4. And that library could use many more patrons!!

    Today I was remembering a photo from last year of the reclining Santa with the young people around him.

    Thanks for a great year in pictures and words, Nina.

    Merry Christmas, Donna

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