You don't want to hear about the tedious hours spent first on reviewing the used car additions to Craigslist for the day. Ed reminds me that we may be spending many weeks like this, poring over countless auto specs before finding the right one. That almost made me pick up the phone and call the Corolla owner and tell him that I'll take his car at any price at all, just so that I can get out of this car-polluted existence! But, I hold steady and turn my attention to other details of the day.
Like breakfast.
There is a bit of pale sunshine outside -- at least in the minutes I am out checking in on the cheepers. Lovely, gentle light that makes me forget about the freezing weeks we have before us.
Our molting white hen (who remains nameless here because we don't like her given name and never use it) is growing her feathers in and that is good news indeed! And in the meantime, Butter just keeps laying, year round, oblivious to the seasons, oblivious to the suboptimal conditions in the coop. She is our brave girl, that's for sure!
Little Snowdrop comes at noon and I remind her that soon there will be other little snowdrops -- of the blooming flower kind outside. She seems buoyed by that. (Or maybe it's my perky tone that gets her going.)
She alternates between this and more quiet time. With melodies drifting from my newly created playlist for her.
And then she is at it again -- in her crib, on her giraffe sheet (and coincidentally in her giraffe jammies), looking to me like she is taking her first dance steps! (Belle, the cow struggles to imitate Snowdrop's perfectly turned out leg.)
And of course, working hard on developing her social smile!
The skies clouded over when she left. They say there'll be that awful wintry mix, followed by plummeting temperatures. The winter that understandably leaves everyone frustrated. Though not me. At least not today.
Though I don't think you intend it to be funny... reading about the car search has made me smile several times - slapstick funny. What a nuisance it must be! I can drive but haven't driven in a very long while. I haven't left the house since January 10th when someone picked me up. I had a new battery put in my car and keep on forgetting to have someone start it up and drive it a bit. *sigh* I have to keep the car for emergency purposes - but also see no reason to keep it.
ReplyDeleteIt's been a gray winter. We haven't had too much precipitation, but lots of gray days. Last month when my children were here we had some of the coldest weather of the season, Since then, it's been rather mild. But when they start arriving again (20 family members from both families) the weather is supposed to dip into the single digits again.
It's truly amazing to visibly see the changes in Snowdrop - her physical growth as well as her greater awareness of her surroundings and the animation of her eyes and mouth. Very precious. Such a treat for us. xo
I enjoy the car hunt, too, Irene. But I sometimes just feel like stamping my feet and telling Nina to bite the bullet and march on down to the dealer for a new one. As for you, if you're keeping your car for emergencies, then you really must keep it charged up, or it won't run when an emergency comes.
DeleteAgree, it's so interesting to see the increase in intention in Snowdrop's face.
It really is amazing how she's changed over time. And having day by day photos makes that such fun to go back and review. We haven't seen crying in quite a while and more and more smiles! She's figuring it all out... and so is her family!
DeleteAs a friend said to me when my first was born... kids come with their own instructions, so we just have to learn how to read them :^)
Lee: *laughing* I agree on all fronts. I think she should also just *do it!* but then the funny stories would end. And you are spot-on - my car won't be an emergency vehicle if it won't start. It's a dreadful out-of-sight, out-of-mind thingy. I have people coming to the house today - I should tie a piece of string on a finger.
DeleteCharlotte: It has come as no surprise, because of this blog's archives, that Nina's documentation of Snowdrop's tiny & precious life has been revealed to us so beautifully. Today, especially, I saw such gigantic changes. How does that happen! It all zooms so fast. She's a wise and wonderful grandmother to make/have time with Snowdrop.
Irene -- so glad you (and you too, Lee I) picked up the humor in the hunt! Most shopping ventures that pair me with Ed offer up good writing material because we have such different approaches to them.
DeleteLee I: no, I'll never buy a new car. I have liked opening the car door and banging the car parked next to mine in our driveway -- which is equally likely to bang into mine. Ed and I take great pride in banging ourselves in this way and, too, in having a line up of wrecks. Just by getting an upgrade now I am going to have to go easy on the bangs and, too, start worrying about locking the car -- something that I have never ever ever had to do with the 93 Escort. No one looks inside, no one wants to steal it, no one wants to get even close to it. Sigh. A nicer car is such a burden! :)
Charlotte: Okay, full disclosure: Snowdrop poops, wails, fusses. But, in modest amounts! (Famous last words.)
Irene again: you do continue to see the good in people, don't you...:)
xo to all.
But I bet her poops, wails, and fusses are magnificent!
DeleteOkay, my filthy mind once again oozed into the gutter. In my day, *banging* someone was a euphemism for you-know-what. When did you move to the states? (Oh, how I amuse myself!)
I'm in love with your observations about old cars. It was gently suggested last year that I might think about having my car re-painted. My first reaction was, "Huh?" I recognize the balding spots on my car's finish as badges of miles well traveled... scratches are laugh wrinkles that have sneaked up and remind me how good life is. It never occurred to me to have my car re-painted. Like you, I bang around. I'm such a slut. (Oops, am I allowed to say that here?)
Caught in the act of being an immigrant! It's not that I hadn't heard the word used in that way, but it was definitely not my association! :)
DeleteI know this, but I am still amazed by how fast the little one is developing every day. I am in love with your daily photos and descriptions.
ReplyDeleteI have enjoyed hearing about JoyD's grandchild, who is one month older than Snowdrop. It's amazing that your grandson, who seems to be a total newborn (what a surprise) will soon be gurgling right back at you!
DeleteThank you so much for your comments, btw!
xo
I join the others about the car situation... I like the "just do it" mantra... there could come a time when an emergency pops up and you will be very glad to have a new car to use... money isn't everything!
ReplyDeleteBex, I would accept that if it weren't for the fact that right now we have my 93 Escort, Ed's 00 Hyundai and an ancient but running truck in the driveway. Obviously I'll sell my Escort. I bought it for $600 four and a half years ago and expect to sell it for around $500. But all cars are in good working condition so I am in no hurry. Money isn't everything, but why spend it if you don't have to? Why not get the best possible deal for a car you like? Why not do things you enjoy with your savings -- like picking up a few lovely books for Snowdrop or, if the savings a big -- going to Cornwall in March? I have very much bought into this one aspect of the Ed mentality: every dollar spent on something has consequences -- for your budget, for the planet, for how you use your time, for how you value what's important. I really believe that (even as I can't always live by it, being somewhat wedded to liking nice things).
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