last July Sunday

Oh no! It's 6 a.m. already? Quick bounce out of bed. Feed animals. Clip lilies. 361 today. Good. Nice and low. It may rain. It's muggy.  New plants came last night. No time to deal with them now. One last look at the garden. 

(our ten year old peach tree has... peaches!)

Ed, I know it's early, like, really early, but I'm eating breakfast now. Okay, I'm coming down... Yawn...

I rush off to the Young Shakespeare Players theater. Dress rehearsal today, starting at 8. I wont be here for the performances, but I get permission to watch the rehearsal. All seven hours of it. 

(backstage: getting ready)

It's the full version production of the Tempest -- itself, not the longest of Shakespeare's plays, but you know how it is. You cut into a scene, make corrections.

Snowdrop is Gonzalo (165 lines). With a second small part of Juno (10 lines), which she was to play on nights she wasn't Gonzalo, but then the second Gonzalo quit so she has to cover all plays and switch in and out of Juno as well. It's a big load for a 9-year old first timer. (The ages of players range from 8 to 18.)

(as Juno)

Watching a rehearsal, to me, is even more fun than watching the real production. First of all, the auditorium is empty. And I can take pictures. I'm not nervous about anyone flubbing lines, because, well, who cares. And I get to see the kids become their parts. I've always loved this part of parenting and now grandparenting -- watching them become something. The learning, the transformation.

 

 

She's great of course, because she is mine, but too because she knows her part and her cues and she knows the parts of others, and she is both embarrassed and delighted to have me there, just like my kids would have been had I shown up for a rehearsal. You know, lest I do something that would mortify her, them.

They have a short lunch break. I go to Bloom Bakery and buy a cookie and a coffee... 

 

 

... then I come back to it. I've seen the Tempest several times, including when my own daughter was in it some thirty plus years ago. Same company, but back then, they did it in the park, like in New York, Shakespeare in the Park, only different -- in Hoyt Park, and it was buggy and the kids had to change in the dark, behind bushes and it was both great and magical and very uncomfortable. The group moved to an indoor space when one became available and I luxuriate in it now. 

And they bow... 

 

 

 

... and I go home, quickly.

No, not to plant, not to work in the garden -- but to deal with my mother's issues and then to quickly fix dinner because the gang is here for it.

Where did this day go? 

Ed, do you want to watch the Olympics? After that awful Ripley episode we need to put behind us? 

That is my last Sunday in July.

with love... 

the final push

Very early, I began to imagine how this day should look. I haven't family obligations and so whatever structure I give it will be my own. It sounds pretty leisurely and relaxed, but believe me -- I have a lot on my plate for this week. As I was thinking about stuff that awaits me, it struck me that I do not have summer shoes. Or sandals. I wear cheap rubber flip-flops around the farmette fields, and if the weather gets dicey, I have gardening clogs. When I visit my daughter in The City, I wear sneakers. In Scotland, I wore the same sneakers. And in Paris, I wore those sneakers. Mind you, they are very nice Allbird eucalyptus fiber sneakers: a gray tweed, almost like shoes. But not quite. They're sneakers. Honestly -- I do not have summer shoes.

So this day has to include finding a solution to this, because in a few weeks I will be in a city and it will be very hot and eucalyptus fiber sneakers wont cut it. Everyone will be wearing sandals. I should find some comfortable sandals, which is a challenge because a person who doesn't wear shoes does not easily fit into a pair once she gets it into her head that she needs to be in something made of leather.

Between 5 am and 6:30, I search the internet for comfortable sandal type shoes.

My day is off to a weird start.

Ed seems not to have slept much at all, so we bounce around thoughts about the day, about politics, about the economy. Light stuff! But by 7, I have fed the animals and am in the garden. I begin to snip lilies, though I don't get far because the Farmers Market beckons. 

 

 

(good morning!)

At the market, I need carrots. Maybe radishes since my garden ones have already bolted. I need flowers for the table!

And oh, are there ever flowers! 

 

 

Well, in addition to the foods of course. I buy a lot of produce and then a bouquet that has so many dahlias that it threatens to overwhelm any vase I may have. For $15, it's a steal!

From there -- to Madison Sourdough. Ed wanted cookies, I wanted breakfast treats. 

I did not notice until I got home that they confused the order, filling two boxes with just breakfast treats. Am I unhappy? No I'm not. I'll get him cookies later in the week.

Breakfast on our wonderful porch, where the mornings are so very fine and the sun dapples us with just the right amount of light and there are flowers all around us (in addition to the ones on the table).

(let's insert us into the picture!)

 

 

And now I throw myself into the flower fields. The weather is lovely and the mosquitoes are still on the lower end of the continuum. 

 

 

 

I finish the snipping job (415 today, so pretty much the same, for a few days now), and I tidy up the freshly dug up field, and I move some lilies that are blocked by towering phlox, and I weed. Oh, do I weed! I weed the lily bed, the bed around the secret path, the bed by the driveway. I even do a modest weeding job in the front road bed. And here's a big one: I weed around the sheep shed, pulling out dozens of six foot tall rag weed plants and a whole host of other junk that has pretty much taken over that area. Call it a final push to get the beds tidy for the rest of the summer.

I am, officially, exhausted. My arms itch from the ragweed. My feet are dirty. My toes look like something out of a village life storybook. No way will they look decent in city sandals!

And no way do I want to cook supper tonight.

No way do I want to do anything at all.

In my opinion, this is a perfect set up for Olympic watching and for a quick click through to get a pizza delivery. Nah, forget the pizza. We have enough lettuces to make up a decent salad. Add nuts and a cheeper egg for protein and voila! In the meantime, I make lists for the next week and I watch the light filter into our room through tree branches. You can really lose yourself in just watching the movement of branches, as displayed by the shadows doing their wiggle on the carpet of your living room. 

I need nothing more to make this day complete. Maybe an Aperol Spritz. And...

... Hey Ed, can we watch the Olympics now? 

competing interests

Ed! Did you see that? They carried the torch on a zip line over the River Seine!

Um, no. I missed it. Ed makes a point of not watching the Olympics and especially the ceremonies leading up to the games.

Normally, I'm neutral about the opening stuff. One big show, lots of noise. I used to watch to see what the Polish team wore, now I think everyone is dressed to look like school children in a boarding school. Nonetheless, these opening ceremonies are in Paris! Out there, along the banks of the River Seine -- they showcases the city in a crazy beautiful way and I wish I could just watch this all day. But I can't.

Fact is, it's a stunning day, a really beautiful day out here in south central Wisconsin. I'm out snipping lilies (402 today, so holding steady for a while at this lower level) early, because I want to get that job done by the time the guys come at 9 to scare away the mosquitoes. There are many reasons for doing the lily cleanup before rather than after. Trust me, it's better this way. And the garden! Like Paris, it's best when the light is just so. Morning light is often just so.

Breakfast? I bike to Tati Cafe to pick up these:

I love this morning ride -- not long, to be sure, but still so satisfying on a sunny and still cool morning.

The day, each summer day, has its official beginning, my own opening ceremony, on the porch (I have this perennial sweet pea vine that blooms and blooms despite finishing the season in the shade!).

And then I go out and do something that is a real no-no, but I don't care. Breaking rules now and then is allowed when you're 71. (What's my vice? Well, there are many, but this one is throwback to the past: sitting out in the sun and letting those warm rays work their feel-good magic.)

If I would live by the wise saying that I should always listen to my body, then I'd be out there daily, facing the sun, enjoying its warmth, drifting in my thoughts, letting myself go limp as tension flows out and good vibes soak me from top to bottom. My body is darn happy in sunshine. Unfortunately, medicine has challenged my body on this one (and on wine too, damn it!) and so I have to actually ignore what feels good (a nice sun soak and evening wine -- two glasses used to feel soooo perfect!) and go with the science. Except on days like this one. Because, like I said, at 71, you have to sometimes let loose!

(Looking out at my flowers, from a sunny position on the red chair)

And then I get to work. I am officially signing on to the deportation of all illegals: meaning I want to remove all weeds and invasives that have crept into my flower fields and which I've ignored because of the heat, the bugs, the preoccupation with lilies, with life itself. But today, I get to work. The mosquitoes are momentarily gone. There's no better day for doing this then right now. (I am not in favor of other deportations, in case you're wondering. Anyone who has worked in a restaurant kitchen in this country knows better than to suggest something so totally nutty and cruel.)

And I work hard.

Really hard.

Buckets and buckets of weeds, pulled ruthlessly from the fields closest to the courtyard. I cannot do all of them. The terrain is too vast, and haven't the strength to put in a ten hour work day. Leave it to the next generation, of, say, nearly 60 year olds!

 

Besides, I have to pick up the kids.

Tired bunch. But soon made happy by snacks and farmhouse books and play. 

 

 

 

And a glimpse at the Eiffel Tower on TV! I'm THAT kind of a grandmother! 

Evening: I warned Ed. I want to watch a replay of the Olympic moments.  I mean, yes, I know he and I are in the middle of a film noir series on Netflix. Ripley. It's dark and awful but for some reason we're hooked on it. How about an episode of Ripley followed by boats of people waving flags in the rain in Paris?

A rerun of my photo from late June...

With love...

 

it's a beautiful day

All my grandkids know the song I sing when I am with them and happy. It's called "It's a Beautiful Day" and I made it up years ago, when I wheeled around the first babe that came along, coming close to now ten years ago. The focus of the song is on them and I do stand behind the sentiment in the lyrics. A confirmation of what you already know -- that they are a source of joy and wonderment. But it is also true that they are not the only source of joy and wonderment. There are days that are just plain beautiful and full of wonderment, no matter who is around. 

Today is one such day.

Sunny and mildly warm. Without the humidity. (And tomorrow will be even better, because we are going to do one more spray of the "natural" (haha) stuff, to ward off the latest army of mosquitoes.) Life is sooo good! Optimistic thoughts abound!

And I'm down to 374 snipped lilies this morning. It is, frankly, a relief to be declining in numbers. Even if the lilies may be calming down, the phlox, is really exploding. There's plenty of color in the garden. Here, take a look:

(the path leading to the farmhouse door...)

I bike over to Tati's coffee shop and bring home pain au chocolat for breakfast. Supreme contentment!

Not done with biking yet: Ed and I pedal over to Stoneman's Farm for the corn. 

More outdoor stuff: we (finally!) pick some of the garlic. This is a big deal for me because Ed planted too much and in my opinion, it overwhelmed the courtyard, sometimes blocking the lily field just behind. Of course, the lily field is almost done for the year, but still, it's good to reclaim the courtyard again. Admittedly, the garlic looks fabulous. We're losing so much to animals and birds in the veggie field and it's nice to know that there is one thing no animal out there will pull out and devour. Yay garlic.

In the afternoon I pick up just Snowdrop today. 

Toward the end of her visit, she asks to go to the local Farmers Market. I'm not sure why she likes it so much, but we're happy to take her along. (Oh! Maybe it has to do with the cherry pie and cheese curds! She always talks us into getting both.)

Home then. Her home. Where I check in with her mom for a few minutes out on the deck, before turning around to do a very late stop and shop at the grocery store.

Yes, it's a packed day. Just half of the activities and events would have felt like it's one hell of a busy day. 

And yet -- all that sunshine -- on the bike ride, picking garlic, chatting on the deck -- it felt so perfect. Not busy at all, just very very perfect.

(evening at the farmette)

 

 

with love...