Thursday, November 13, 2014

thoughts on hardy stock and breaking the law

Would you break the law if you knew that everyone was doing it? What if you knew, too, that you wouldn't incur consequences?

Most anyone I know would say -- not me! Maybe to save the life of another, or unwittingly, or in tiny ways, but for personal gain? Not me!

This is where I want to tick off all the ways where we routinely go against the rules, big and small. My favorite is crossing the street on a red light when there is no traffic. I'll never forget this scene: it was in Fukuoka, Japan, some dozen years ago. I was standing with a small group at a corner, at night and there was absolutely no vehicular traffic. Nonetheless, everyone waited for the light to change. My customary impulse to break that rule was so strong that I could not, could not resist the pull to place my foot on the street before the light turned green! Not only do I appear to violate this rule of the road routinely, it seems I can't NOT violate it, even when there's social pressure to obey.

There are no traffic lights around the rural roads that twist and dip around the farmette where I live and when I go out for a walk, I make a point of walking into the traffic, like I know the law requires. But there is another little area of rule violations that I dabble in and as I step deeper into the fray with this particular activity, I'm just a touch surprised how seemingly indifferent I am to the fact that here again, there is a law and I am either breaking it, or at the very least, participating in someone else's lawlessness. Sort of like an accomplice to a crime.

I'm referring to renting through AirBnB. I've stayed in rooms or apartments rented under the table, so to speak, in a number of places -- Berkeley, Dublin, New York, Paris, Warsaw -- the list is not short! I know the rule on when it's legal in Ireland, because an AirBnB person there explained it to me (but I didn't check if she was right or if she followed it). I pretty much can guess that in the other places the rentals were in violation of local ordinance.

But everyone is doing it!

Well now, there's an answer! Truth is, though I think the laws should be adjusted to permit some form of space sharing, for the most part, I understand the reasons behind the rules and in any case, it's not up to me to decide if the rules are good or bad. Is it? Or maybe it is? By massive violations, we are making a statement that change is needed, no?

Phew. I feel better. This still doesn't explain my feverish desire to cross a street in Fukuoka on a red light, but at least in the case of AirBnB -- I'm making a statement! (Of sorts.)

I write about this as I tidy up my plans for a trip in a few weeks (AirBnb, yet again) and, too, as I consider the possibility that in the years to come, AirBnB will play a huge role in my travels across the ocean.

And you know that it must be a gray day, here in Wisconsin, because thoughts of travel are with me from the minute I wake up this morning.

Gray and cold. I push Ed out of bed.  
Your turn to let the cheepers out. I make that up. We don't take turns. Ever since I agreed to let Oreo, (the batty rooster that's Ed's beloved pal), remain at the farmette, I laid this condition: you let them out in the mornings! I don't want Oreo to attack me at sunrise! Of course,  Oreo has, for now, settled down and frankly, none of the chickens are especially energetic at sunrise or otherwise. An attack would require a lot of running and flapping on his part. He hardly seems geared for that since the weather turned cold.

Ed dutifully gets up and stumbles out toward the barn, half asleep going out, still half asleep coming back inside.


Okay. Time for us all to move this day forward. I get up, look out the window...
Oh! You didn't tell me there was a bit of snow on the ground!
That deserves and receives a grunt. I can get the guy to open the coop at the break of dawn, but this is not the time to look for dialogue.

I go out, with my camera, because you know, those first dustings of snow are always so special!


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The cheepers don't share my enthusiasm for it. They're out of the coop, but they absolutely show no interest in leaving the barn. Drafty as it is, at least the barn doesn't have snow on the ground.

Chickens hate snow.

And yet, they need exercise. I take out grains to entice them out. One stumbles to look, pecks once, retreats, as if to say -- not worth it.


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I nearly give up on them. At breakfast (in the kitchen today), I tell Ed -- they're stuck for the season in the crappy old barn! 


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But as we look out the window, we see that they are moving toward us. Perhaps they spotted the light in the kitchen window. Tentatively, gingerly, they are making their way to the farmhouse.


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Bravely, so bravely, they step along the half frozen path (we are now at the beginning of a two week spell of complete, bone chilling cold). I go to the farmhouse door to greet them.


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I feed them raisins and seeds and nuts and they peck away, but still oh so tentatively. As if their carefree life has been blasted out from under their feet and they have to figure out afresh what's what.


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(Butter pecks at the potted mums  -- is there anything that's living left in this world?)


But here's the amazing part: whereas all chicken people I know by now have given up on regular egg collection (you can force hens to lay with lights in the winter, but we're not going to do that), our girls are still going strong. Against all odds, breaking all rules, so to speak, they're giving us three eggs every single day.

Hardy stock. We've got a lot of that floating around the farmette these days.


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(note Isie boy behind the glass door: he's still a little intimidated by the whole cheeper deal)

And that's a good thing.


P.S. to the NYTimes piece from yesterday: I really enjoyed your comments here and, too, the comments of NYT readers after the piece itself. I especially recommend those to my demographic: if you're thinking you may be a grandparent soon, go back to the article and find out what young parents are saying about the whole grandparent schtick.

15 comments:

  1. First, Fantastic photo of Isie, Oreo and Butter. Just super.

    I'm afraid I have broken the law. I have lived in a illegal apt., cut the tags from lamps and bedding after I purchased it, and touched a national monument when the sign clearly stated if was forbidden.

    Your first snow!

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  2. The picture of the four cheepers marching toward the house really tickles my fancy. Love it. Scofflaw? I think I'm mostly law abiding regarding traffic laws and major crimes, except during youthful political protests. I never ever shoplifted. I've sat for five minutes at a red light in the middle of the night with no cars coming from any direction, but I don't think I'd do that now. But I've learned a more daring form of street crossing as a pedestrian from the French. We're taught in the US that if you wish to step off a curb to cross a street where there are no traffic control device, to catch the eye of the oncoming motorist to make sure he/she sees you, even catch the tacit nod. But on a crowded Paris boulevard, you play a more daring game, pretending not to see the motorist who is pretending not to see you step into the roadway. There's no room for the faint of heart or you will never get across. Of course, I must always consider that I may fall on my nose, as is a recent failing.

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    1. Ah, but the French love the challenge and ultimately, they know to stop for you. Here, the car rules and even if the law says otherwise, people often do not know that zebra stripes make you the king of the road.

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  3. On crossing the street in Japan before the green guy tells you you can-- my theory is that it's 99% cultural. If all those folks waiting obediently with you lived in the U.S., they'd cross on red. If you grew up or spent years living over there, you'd wait without question. Over here in Denmark it's the same thing-- you wait until you're allowed to cross. At first this seemed completely ridiculous to do. Now I do it without question (and with the rationale that if everyone follows the rules of the road, everyone stays safer... even when sometimes it seems unnecessary... and okay, when it occasionally seems REALLY unnecessary, I will still cross before I'm told... also with the rationale that the grown-ups are setting an example for their and other folks' children, whatever that example may be). When I have friends or family from the U.S. visiting and they begin to cross the street on red I blurt out something to let them know that's not the way it's done here. Then I sometimes feel foolish for being such a stickler because I realize it must seem pretty ridiculous to someone coming from the U.S. Whether I meant to or not, I've internalized that rule, at least while I'm standing at a Danish cross-walk, so my response has become knee-jerk.

    In other news, Henry saw the picture of the chickens and said, 'That was a long time ago that I was there and saw those chickens.'

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    1. Awww, Henry!
      Point on culture and crossing addressed in the next day's blogpost!

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  4. Do bicyclists obey the road rules overseas too? Here they just ignore them. At least in Boston - where they are famous for living by their own rules on the road.

    If you went a day or two without feeding the chickens anything, they'd appreciate the bits you give them more, just like anything - they expect to be pampered cheepers now... poultry entitlement... you have going on there!

    Now have you investigated about giving them raisins? All I know is that they are toxic to dogs, but not sure about chickens...

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    1. Raisins are OK, apparently.

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    2. Yep. These come in a mix, from a farm store, packaged especially for cheepers.

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    3. In Denmark, bicyclists definitely follow the rules of the road, one big component of why it's so safe to bike here. Also, cars follow the rules of the road (another big component), and pedestrians (at least pedestrians in the cross-walk, and they're virtually all in the cross-walk because they're such staunch rule followers) are "king." Don't look as you step out into a cross-walk-- eh... drivers weren't really expecting you to.

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  5. When I was a little girl, the idea of The Golden Rule really appealed to me. I actually visualized something like golden rays of goodness emanating from kind people. :)
    Thanks to Mom & Dad for emphasizing that to me rather than Original Sin.

    We didn't take our own kids to church, but if you teach them the Golden Rule by living it, I think you've done right by them.




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    1. Ah, the ethic of reciprocity. Yes, though kids look to parents for guidance. One interesting comment my daughters made after some particularly distressing to them event in their college years is that they wished we had acknowledged more often that life is unfair. (Predictably, I was more positive in my description of the way things work.)

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  6. And... I'm glad you're getting in a little trip B.B. (Before Baby). After she arrives, you won't want to leave!
    I look forward to traveling "with you" again soon.

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    1. I will love the baby, but the travel wont go away. Note sidebar in blog with future travel: those are trips already planned out in their most glorious detail. I am who I am! :)

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