Sunday, April 06, 2025

Paris

The first thing I did this morning is look outside. Call me boring, but I have to say it -- it's a warm and beautiful day in Paris!



The next thing I did was respond to a text from my younger girl -- "we landed!" she wrote. Yay! I wrote back. I am looking forward to adjusting my pace to that of little Juniper (who is three). My step counter yesterday went nuts. Days like that are fine, but they require rest after. Without that, I'm antsy. (So tired was I last night that at 12:30 a.m., when I tried to unwind and go to sleep, I failed. Lesson learned: I need to slow down.)

And then? Breakfast! 



But I don't linger. I have a task for the morning -- I'm off to find croissants for the arrival of the young family.

I walk over to La Boulangerie La Parisienne. These guys were baguette winners some time back so I figure their croissants must also be up there. It's a nice 15 minute walk past, past the Boulevard St Germain...



... and the church, St Germain des Pres, which gives its name to the entire neighborhood, the Left Bank main drag, and even my hotel. .

 


(a grandma showing her little guy a map and explaining, for some reason, where he can find Venice...)


(the bakery)


(the awesome cakes and tarts highlight the fact that we are in the berry season here already)


(Walking back, I almost turn right to head to my hotel le Baume... not today though. Next time, but not today...)


And the final important thing I did this morning is greet the new arrivals, who arrived just as I was walking up to the entrance of the hotel!



("I think I'm going to like it here...")


(the croissants)




(checking out the ins and outs of the hotel)


They don't pause: they leave their bags, pick up some jackets (it's cool here in the mornings) and we head out.

 


I have handed over the reigns to the parents, who are excellent planners and organizers. I'm here for the ride! 

Our first destination is the market on the Boulevard Raspail. It's maybe a fifteen minute walk at a brisk pace, but it's their first walk and there are distractions. For example -- the dog cafe just up the block. Really, it appears to be for dogs. This one comes out to greet us and seems not inclined to return to the cafe.



(Dancing on the Boulevard...)


(At the market, looking for good stuff...)



(I find these lilacs. So fragrant! I must bring some back to my room!)


(what else?)


(strawberries and tomatoes...)




From here, we go to the food halls at the Bon Marche.  I admire the tomatoes, but we're not here for those...



(Yes, macarons can be added to our loot.)


What we really need is sandwiches. We pick up a couple to share in the small next door park.

 




This particular park has the world's crummiest merry-go-round in that it has maybe 4 or 5 vehicles that go round and round in a very small circle. Nonetheless, any grandchild I have brought here has loved it. These two are no exception.

 


The park also has a playground that really is age appropriate for Juniper. And just barely Primrose (who turned 7 last month).




(macaron time...)




We walk back to the hotel so that Juniper can nap. They all need naps, I'm sure, but the older bunch (and Primrose) are powering through so that they readjust their internal clocks. I feel lucky to be beyond that first tired day.

(the hotel has sweetly provided kid slippers...)


I return to my room and do some photo work. Eventually Primrose joins me...

 




By 4:30, Juniper definitely was not ready to wake up, but one had to insist, otherwise the night would have been a headache for her and for the parents.

 


Where to now? To the Jardin Luxembourg!

(If Juniper is not yet cheered up, she will be soon! The park on a Sunday and a sunny one at that, is magical for kids!)


First stop -- the old fashioned merry-go-round. This guy has been helping kids "catch the ring" for years! Always ready to help the littlest ones, always energetically encouraging them all to do their best.



(she got a few rings!)


(on the second ride, Juniper wants to try... and she succeeds!)


There is a superb playground, but it being Sunday, it's crowded and we are running low on time. The girls settle for swings, and eventually we go down the steps to the big pond, just to watch the boats being pushed forward by kids with sticks.



Dinner is at Breizh Cafe. Definitely the city's best creperie, where the galettes are made with buckwheat flour. Last time they tried this food, neither girl liked it much. Today, they are more open minded.

 


And of course, there are the dessert crepes...



We walk back to our hotel satisfied and happy.

Hmmm... I'm still counting 40 photos here on Ocean. But of course, it's their arrival that upped the numbers! It was celebratory! It was momentous! It was lovely.

Tomorrow I'll slow down. Maybe.

with so much love...

 

Saturday, April 05, 2025

Paris and beyond

I open the windows to sunshine. Brilliant warm air and blue skies. I'm worried that I will have to pay the price for this in future travel. It can't always be this grand!



I come down to breakfast. Back to the French standards. 



I am sitting next to an American couple, but not of the kind you'd expect: it's a mother (my age) and son (my daughters' age). This gives me hope! When I'm old and positively incapable of hoisting a suitcase to the overhead (by the way, lifting a heavy bag up there is very very bad for your lower back), or picking it off the conveyor belt, I can beg a daughter to accompany me and do the lifting, and guiding, and yes, having breakfast with me in a Parisian hotel.

This is not at a time for family travel in Paris -- the kind where there would be young children here. The only reason my daughter chose this week for their trip is that Primrose has spring break now. Later than most any American school I know. Personally I think it's a way better time to take a school pause. The school year is long. The weather for us northerners is just starting to improve. It's a great time to be spending many hours out and about.

Outside... That's where I need to be right now. My day is split into two parts: the first half is all about walking the streets of Paris. The second half? Crazy. And so not me! You'll see. 

 

I'm off for my walk. 

 


 

 

(I'm not the only one! Grandma, granddaughter, dad.)

 


("we should pick up something here...")


I actually have a goal. I seem to have written into my calendar that I should visit the bakery Mille et Un. I dont remember how or why I chose it, but it's a good destination -- maybe a 15 minute walk into the heart of the Left Bank.

Oh, now, I remember! This is a French - Korean bakery that did well in a number of competitions. Best croissant, best flan, etc. 

 


 

There is a line outside. I join it.

It's hard to decide what to pick up and when and where I should eat whatever I get. 

 


 

 

How about their award winning croissant with creme patisserie and strawberries? To be eaten in the park?

(Along the way: stopping at Zara for one more t-shirt)


(Along the way: I pass my favorite bookstore. Looks like this grandma just bought some books there -- for herself and her granddaughter.)


 (Along the way: such a pretty design! Wouldn't it look fine on the porch dining table?)


(Very brief pause at the Jardin Luxembourg: exuberance!)


 

 

(Very brief pause at the Jardin Luxembourg: for that croissant.)


 

 

(On the way  back to the hotel: I pass a wedding of very famous, or very wealthy, or both people. Hundreds attended. All very well dressed.)


 

 

And now for the second half of this day:

I may be missing the crocus blooms and the occasional early daffodil at the farmette. But here I am in Europe, where flowers emerge earlier (and so there are more of them blooming away right now) and the weather is perfect. I want to go to Giverny. Monet's gardens.

I haven't been there in early spring for several years now (last time: April 3, 2022 -- thank you, Ocean for the prompt!). And it is one of my favorite times to visit the gardens. And I need the inspiration for my own season of planting!

However.

When thinking about this back in the dark winter days at the farmette, I googled train schedules (now you know how I fritter away my morning hours during the week!) and found to my dismay that the regular one hour train ride from Paris to Giverny is temporarily suspended. They're working on the train line this spring. This means that to get to Giverny I would have to either take a taxi (prohibitively expensive -- I did it in an emergency situation with Snowdrop -- the Paris marathon blocked us from getting to the train station -- never again!), or I would need to sign up for a tour. On a bus.

I cannot tell you how much I loathe the idea of visiting Giverny, my private wonderful beloved much explored Giverny (even staying the night up the road a couple of times!) in a group, by one of those coaches that I try to not even look at, let alone join. [I am not against such a form of visiting famed sights, I get why they are popular, and even necessary for some. I just myself do not like them, have never ever liked them, being, I admit it, extremely selfish and private when I want to explore a place, especially one I know I will love. I don't like to follow a group and listen to someone telling me what I should look at, and what's so great about what I am seeing. I even hated school museum trips -- I was pretty good, well mostly good at following the rules within the schoolhouse gates, but once released from that prison, I could not, would not be herded. To my credit, I know a person who is even worse in this: Ed.] 

So here I am, joining a group, because I need the cheaper transport to Giverny.

I picked the smallest group I could find -- this one operated by Blue Fox Travel (found with Get Your Guide -- a service I've used in Europe for Snowdrop's sightseeing). The promise is of a small van. My intention is to ditch the group (no matter how lovely the people -- my apologies, I love your determination to see Giverny, just not with me) once I am in the gardens, and to rejoin for the ride home. Not wanting to appear uppity, I will make up some excuse about photographing flowers. Which comes very close to being true.

Our meetup is at the far side of the Arc de Triomphe. Google tells me that's about a 55 minute walk. 

(Along the way: it's the French lunch time: he is bringing for his hosts all the essentials: flowers, a baguette, and a bag from a Paris cheese shop.)


 

(Along the way: I'm guessing she's telling him "now you behave at grandma's!")


 

(crossing the river to the Right Bank)


 

The routing takes me along the Champs Elysees. (So, uphill.)

I set out enthusiastically, but my enthusiasm quickly subsides as I join the crowds that flood the avenue leading up to the Arc. In my view, it is awful there now. A huge avalanche of people, doing what? Certainly not shopping here. Why swarm the place? It's nearly impossible to even walk. 

I never see this part of Paris. I think if I had to pass through this way on any of my trips here, I'd temper my love of this city. And it didn't used to be this way. I remember trips with my daughters here when they were young. We'd always walk this wide boulevard and it was just lovely. But today my head is spinning. And I have this revelation: maybe, just maybe, at my age, crowds mess with my head. Maybe, just maybe I am too old to enjoy swimming in a sea of people.

Once by the Arc, crowds start to thin. Still, I had to wait a good many minutes to clear the scenery (of people, of cars) for this photo:

 


 

 

The Giverny group has gathered promptly, as instructed, fifteen minutes before departure. Two vans. Eight per van. In my ensemble, I have a woman from Iceland, one from Australia, and the rest are from the US -- two furious at having our country destroyed right now, the other four -- well, they stay silent on the issues. (Our group leader, Brunehilde, a young lass of some twenty plus years, asks for little bios as we're driving along.)

I'm seated next to the Australian woman. She is exactly my age and she has had some tragic family losses and now here she is, embarking on a two month trip up and down France, trying to pick up some artistic insight so that she can do some painting in her senior years. She's chatty. I take a deep breath and set myself into the listening mode.

 


 

In an hour, we are in Giverny. Our guide takes us to the cemetery first.  Groan. I want the garden. Okay, let's be patient. She's just trying to add spark to the tour.

Finally.

We are there.

I walk up to our guide and ask to be dismissed. She's a bit surprised but accepting of my weirdness. We'll meet up at the exit in two hours.

Brunehilde tells me she has never ever seen such crowds at Giverny. But I have. And it's small wonder that we're seeing them now: the place just opened for the season four days ago. It's a beautiful day. And it's a weekend. I'd say half the people around me are French. It's a great outing on a brilliant April afternoon!

Still, the absolutely worst are the big tours: they seem to be all "Viking" people. Forty, or fifty to a group, plugged into earphones, walking in a herd, so that you cannot pass them or avoid their massive presence. But here's the thing: the way Giverny is set up, there are many, many flower beds that have no people near them because fences prevent visitors from getting close. I've always found solace in this. And I do so today. At times, I almost think the people have all gone away and all I have before me are the flowers. And they are beautiful.

One comment though about the seasons: the tulips are the mainstay of an early spring garden here (as they are in so many gardens). But I notice that they're almost done with their bloom time! It's an early season that's now moving away from bulbs. Perhaps all seasons going forward will start earlier?

Okay, photos! Here's a selection. I took many! You get 10 garden ones. I'm trying!

(Taking photos in Giverny requires great patience if you want an uncrowded image -- not something that's easy for me! Don't be misled. There are people. Just not in my photos.)

 




















After about an hour, I've had enough of wiggling my way through Viking swarms. I sit on a bench for a while, gaze out at this piece of beauty and leave.

I go over to the cafe across the road. In the past I found it to be very satisfying. It was okay, for a cup of coffee. There are better places up the road.



And I do go up the road a bit. I am curious if my b&b hosts (where I stayed a couple of times) are still in the business. I never find them. (But I do find the Impressionism Museum -- or at least its white garden...)



And now it's time to rejoin the group. They're done early and waiting for me. Sorry!

(drive back)


 

We hit the traffic coming back to Paris. It's 7 pm by the time we pull up to the Arc.

On balance I am so glad I went! And the group was fine, and our guide was okay, even if I'm not fully convinced she is a indeed a needy philosophy student doing this on the side. Her information was a little off and a little toward the haha side and, horror of horrors, she started off with this -- I know Americans love air conditioning. We French dont use it and dont like it, but I want to make you happy so here it goes! The peanut gallery cheered. For god's sake, it's only 72f (22c) outside! People! But, I'm already the weird one in the group, I don't want to ask to turn the damn thing down. So I froze. And was very happy to be out of the van, on my walk back home. But I veered off the Champs as fast as I could. It really is not for my sensibilities.

 

The entire trip was a 5 hour deal and so I do not come back until late in the evening. I had decided earlier that this is the day to simply eat at the hotel. (In Paris?? Are you kidding me?? I am breaking the mold all over the place today!)

The fact is, my hotel has a special vibe to it: it's historically significant and they try hard to preserve that element: last night, I found a poem on my pillow -- words from a song by a known lyricist who once stayed here. As did T.S. Elliot. And James Joyce, who finished his Ulysses while in these very rooms. Many building in Paris can claim fame to artists, musicians, poets passing through, but I like the fact that this hotel's marketing plan is to make use of its own history.

The hotel has a restaurant that is part of that. It's called Les Parisiens and people tend to like it. It's a good choice for a day when I get in late. And much as I do not like the ambiance of a hotel eatery -- especially this one, which is great for breakfast but a little stark for dinner, still -- the atmosphere is wonderfully informal and the food is prepared under the guidance of one of Paris's "rising stars" -- Thibault Sombardier. It's a brasserie/bistrot model, with a modern twist.  

(Les Parisiens is on the ground floor of the hotel)


 

 

It is, in fact, quite delicious. I order the endive appetizer and the vol au vont -- seafood in a puff pastry. Lovely, all of it.



And now it's getting late once again. After midnight. I cannot help myself! There's so much to see, to think about! But tomorrow I do an about face: the young family is coming. My attention will be on them. Mostly.

with love...