Wednesday, June 22, 2016

farmette vacation

It was a dramatic sunrise.


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That's the benefit of being up with the cheepers -- you will see the dramatic sunrises.

We're expecting heavy storms today and of course, I'm both grateful and apprehensive. Like, how heavy is "heavy?" And when?

I pause to admire the flowers that are now showing their lovely faces. In the world of day lilies, the yellow ones are often the first to emerge, but of course, to me they're not just yellow. Take a look at these three -- tinges of apricot, one ruffled, another -- with a creamy sweetness to it.


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Okay, there is in fact more to life than day lilies. And more to a garden.


(Looking toward the farmhouse...)


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And more to a day.

Breakfast on the porch.


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And then I am off to pick up Snowdrop for her farmette vacation. Presumably without interruptions this time.

Still in her pj's, she wiggles out of my grasp, so that she can say hi to the cheepers. And the garden.


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I skip the morning bath and change her into what I would call gym clothes. There is a tumbling program in one of the little kid gyms nearby and I swear there's a session for her age group today.


Ready for gym, little one?
Can I take bunny rabbit?
Maybe not.


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Well, she may be ready for gym and I may be ready for her to be at gym, but the gym isn't ready for us. Wrong schedule, wrong time. We'll try again another day. But in the meantime, we are right next to Paul's cafe. We can stock up on Ed's favorite pickles and get a treat for ourselves (a bite of a cheese danish, which she only mildly likes).


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And we're close to the library -- a perfect distraction for this morning. Apparently many others agree. We come across a roomful of moms and their babes/toddlers/kids. Parents need that break where their kids go crazy while the adults sit in a circle and talk. Snowdrop, however, is a little taken aback by the noise and chaos. She moves away from the racket, all the while aware of the movement of little ones (they always intrigue her).


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She finds a quiet corner for a moment with a book...


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But then takes my hand and leads me to the center of the chaos. She definitely wants to observe from up close.


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It strikes me how quiet her world is at home or at the farmette. At the library today, things are not quiet.


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Okay, sweet child, time to get back to the farmhouse for that postponed bath. And a romp with grandpa Ed.


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And some real quiet time, staring mightily at a picture of a pond in a Paris park.


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When does the world begin to make sense to a little one? By 17.5 months, is there logic between one act and the next? One day and the next? I tell her today is Wednesday. When does that label begin to matter?

In the afternoon, we have a big event: a dump truck arrives with more wood chips to offload. Snowdrop loves big trucks and she is fascinated by the entire process, though... at a distance.


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(Chickens, on the other hand, are her best friends forever.)


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She wants to stay outside and this time, I let her roam free. I don't watch her like a hawk. I watch her like a grandma who wants to give her the confidence to explore.


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(What are you doing, grandpa Ed?)


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(Picking you up like a football, Snowdrop!)


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(Me, I notice the flowers. Here's a day lily that's not just... yellow toned!)


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I wait for that predicted rumble of storms, but it never comes. Still, I think it's a fine day to make rhubarb cake with Snowdrop.


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And of course, I make the bean enchilada dinner that I know she loves from home. (Yes, confirmed. She eats like a little pony. And yes, there's plenty of room for cake. With whipped cream. Because it's a special week.)

You want your grandchild to have a great time during a visit. But even more, you want her to grow in confidence and self assurance. Today it's grandma's, tomorrow college, after all.

But today it's grandma's. And that's a very fine thing indeed.

Tuesday, June 21, 2016

farmette vacation (with a pause)

I was ready for our farmhouse guest. Well-rested even, as Ed offered to do the cheeper run in the early morning. I was to pick up Snowdrop at 10 and bring her over, suitcase and all. For a longish stay. While her parents attended to important work related events.

I played the role of a grandma who wants to please her granddaughter: I snitched Snowdrop's favorite dinner recipe -- a one pot black bean enchilada bake -- and started chopping ingredients even before breakfast, so that I would only need to pop it in the oven come dinner time.

I check on the garden and tell it to hold tight for a while. My attentions are going to be elsewhere this week.

(In the road-side bed, I planted seeds of a unique burgundy toned nasturtium. To say I had trouble coaxing it to growth is an understatement. Today it produced its first bloom.)


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(Oh, the rich colors of the season...)


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(The emerging garden...)


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A quick breakfast on the porch...


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And I'm off to pick up a barely waking girl, bringing her to the farmhouse still in her pj's, with night-time penguin tucked under her arm.


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You're embarking on a farmette vacation, Snowdrop!


Our day is full. It's warm, sunny, breezy, delicious!

A pool, a wagon and chickens.


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(Scotch: I've never seen an octopus before.
Me: Scotch, put away your envy. Chickens can't swim.)


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Wet faced, with a globe flower in hand. (She never picks any of my flowers. I snipped this one for her.)


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And then she helps me push the wagon and like a little pied piper, she has her entourage...


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I take her to the young orchard and lo, there are just a few cherries and they are ripe and they are delicious!


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(A yellow one too...)


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(We save one or two for Ed, who comes out to join in on the cherry raid.)


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It is hard to believe that this little girl once distrusted the red wagon. She loves it. LOVES it. Yes yes yes! (Her catchall word that means "I want more of this please do not stop please please keep going, don't you dare stop!")


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Three acres give me space to take her this way and that. My, oh my, I never noticed the inclines before... puff puff...

Alright, enough. Let's stop and smell the roses. Or at least admire the flower pots.


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Come inside, Snowdrop! 
Okay okay (her newest word.)


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In the farmhouse now. She "reads," we play...


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...and then comes the phone call telling us that postponements and delays have crept into the young parents' schedules and so in fact, they've a wee bit of time on their hands tonight and maybe Snowdrop can spend the night at home and vacation with grandma can officially start tomorrow?

Snowdrop and I are ever flexible and so after a lunch, which we eat outside (which delights her no end)...


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... where the girl devours half the blueberries in the farmhouse...


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You want more? Okay, let's get you some more...


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... she and I get in the car  and we pick up her mommy so that we can all seek out music together! Make Music Madison is in full swing today. (Were you in any number of other countries on Solstice -- France comes to mind -- you'd see this event in every town and village -- musicians taking to the streets, attracting listeners, dancers, onlookers. I am so happy that Madison has adopted this musical tribute to the longest day of the year!)

Our first stop  is at a Madison institution. What? You've never had frozen custard?? 


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Snowdrop has her first taste of this rich and wonderful dessert. (Thumbs up!)


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We then go next door to Wingra Park. There's another musician there, but he isn't the draw. Snowdrop has her run in the park...


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... a play with mommy...


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... and a long gaze out at the boats that come in, go out...


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And finally, we walk over to Glenwood Children's Park. Families have spread blankets and suddenly we are among friends. The music is good, but it's the mood that draws us in. An invitation to sit on a blanket, to share in some snacks, a beer perhaps... Children listening, just a few moving to the sounds that drift up up and away...


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This feeling of communal well being is what you want for your little ones. Of inclusiveness. Of music.


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In the evening, I wave goodbye to the little girl and her mom and return to spend a quiet evening at the farmhouse with Ed.