a winter of animal worries and snowstorms

Have we finally finished with the winter stories from our modest farmette animal kingdom? I surely think so, as we wake up to yet another brilliantly sunny day. We are, I think, in a holding pattern: the chickens are safe for now (though their future is much under discussion here, at the farmhouse, as Ed does not want to pen them for good and we both agree that a release is asking for trouble). Stop Sign, our sort-of-feral cat is slowly climbing out of despondency and showing some interest in Whiskers, the perhaps-feral cat whom we encountered yesterday. We will see where all this will take us, but for now, we toddle along, cautiously, warily, but without terrible trepidation.

I look out and see many many tracks, in every direction, but I am not surprised. Most likely we had a herd of deer pass through in the light of last night's spectacular full moon.






It's really more than just lovely outside -- there's an icy glitter on the delicate branches...






.... especially visible and stunning on the two great willows.






And to top it off, I'm beginning to hear the chatter of birds -- as if telling us they're ready for the return of spring. Soon, so very soon... (A spot of red on the old crab apple! See it?)






Breakfast in sunshine. (A spot of red in Ed's hand!)






And then I have a coffee date with my visiting friend.

I'm in a hurry. She is already waiting for me. As I walk to the car, I automatically throw a glance toward Stop Sign, who does love to sit on a cardboard shoe box positioned well to capture the sunshine. And what do I see? A kitten bounding to her, a teen-age kitten, a white socked kitten -- yes, it is none other than Dance!






The reunion is spectacular! Dance is meowing, mom is meowing, they paw each other, sniffing, meowing, laughing I'm sure at this miracle.

And then Dance immediately goes to the food dish. Clearly she has not eaten for several days: she wolfs down every last morsel.






We wont ever know her full story, but it is obvious now that we lost only Jacket, her brother, in the hawk/or-was-it-an-owl raid. (Which of course, makes more sense: we could not understand how a hawk could carry off two kittens.) Dance ran, only to find her way back, to reunite with her mother. And now there are these two.






Don't ask where we go from here. There is much to review and consider. It's hard to imagine how we can successfully keep the young cat safe: close the garage door more fully? Coax them both into a better space? Can that even be done? What's a good outcome for them? There is much to think about and discuss.

In the meantime, I'm late for my meeting with my friend. She is understanding. Friends are good that way!






And in the afternoon, I pick up Snowdrop and I tell her that she is still shorter than the curbside snow pile.







In one of our pretend plays, she fishes out books from an old stack. She vaguely remembers them. When I had read them way long ago, she had an "eh" reaction. Today, at the more mature age of four, she's delighted with the characters. She wants to play Madeline. The stage is set for a new game.











Time to go home. I'm in a hurry. It's cold. I have a sweater, my warmest jacket, a cap and mitts. And still, I hurry her. I want to get in the car and turn on the heat. But she has a different body thermometer. Her story takes her to one of her favorite play stations -- by the "cliff string," which marks the spot beyond which you should not drive or park the car, or else you'll roll over "the cliff." Oh what stories follow! But Snowdrop, I'm cold, aren't you cold? No, gaga.





Perhaps she has adapted to Wisconsin's extremes. It will put her in good stead: we're about to get pounded by another snowstorm tonight.

If you like quiet and dull winters, this one may leave you disappointed. But if you like snow, oh, is this one for you! We'll see what this next storm brings to the farmette.

fresh Monday?

It's a beautiful day! Truly gorgeous. A tad cold, but the snow transforms the farmette into something out of a painting.











We begin to move forward after all our animal dramas. Well, we're trying. We have a lovely, sunny breakfast...





And as we settle into our routines (no Sparrow today -- plans are still being adjusted for the young family following last week's medical emergency), we talk about corrections we can make going forward. Protecting the cheepers from hawks and owls has always been a challenge. We don't want a rooster -- I wont put up with that aggressive temperament. We'll muddle along as best we can.

As for Stop Sign -- that's now a challenge too. We had talked about trapping her to get her vaccinated and spayed (Ed has been actively involved in any number of feral cat maintenance programs), but then she up and got herself pregnant! Figuring out how to help her protect her kitties is a major problem (should she again choose to mate). We think she lost several little ones before she brought her two to the garage. Given that she kept them hidden for a long while, it's hard to imagine how we can keep them safe for the duration of their young lives. These are animal issues that will be part of our conversation for many weeks to come.

And now here comes another twist: today for the first time, we spot the big blob of a raccoon, hanging out under the writer's shed. That is bad news at so many levels! A raccoon is a danger to the cheepers. He carries diseases. He probably wont hunt down Stop Sign, but he can kill her by infection. And for sure, we have to limit the amount of time we leave food for her outside. Eat now or forget it, little girl!

In the meantime, Stop Sign seems at times morose...






... at times sanguine, or at least her usual calm self.






When I go out to chat her up, she comes closer and meows non stop. I tell her I have no answers for her. Just care and concern.


Ed and I should have gone skiing, but I tell you, all this animal stuff is a time drain! I do my yoga and we enjoy the utter beauty of the day looking out, from the warm comfort of the farmhouse living space.






And in the afternoon, I pick up Snowdrop.


 


As we come inside, Ed comes in. He hovers, as if wanting to talk.
I ask -- You been to the garage? Something's up?
Well, you wont believe it, but as I was going in, this large animal came out, running past me toward the writer's shed!
The raccoon?
Maybe. But Gorgeous, I don't think it's a raccoon.
Was it a leopard?? (This from Snowdrop.)
Let me show you how raccoons run. He finds a youtube and we watch raccoons saunter across the lawn to the tune of Chariots of Fire. Snowdrop is fascinated.





This was not the way the big animal ran.
So what are you saying?
It's not a raccoon.
What is it then? (Here's a tiny shot of it, taken from the kitchen, so at a big distance and through window panes and porch screens.)





I think it's a Maine Coon.
A what???
You know, that very, very large cat.
Ed, this thing was huge!
They are huge. And look! Stop Sign isn't concerned! She's on her way now to check him out!






Snowdrop is captivated by this exchange. What should we name him?
What do you think?
She'd been listening to Ed's description of these large cats. How about Long Whiskers? She does pick the complicated names.






(You cannot say that Stop Sign is not interested in The Huge Cat! At the very least, it's refreshing to see her demonstrate some spark again. Off she goes to sniff him out!)






Snowdrop and I play. I try not to think about the animals in our various sheltered spots. Who is this newcomer? A welcome friend? A new headache? How will it all turn out? I save all this for later and concentrate on Snowdrop's story of the snake in a box. It is, thankfully, a happy story.






(A pause for a new book: The Pink Umbrella. Rich in illustrations... Suggestively spartan in its story line. The Amazon pitch is "perfect for fans of Amélie." For whatever reason, she loves it.)






When I drive the little girl home, I notice it -- the full Snow Supermoon. I mean, it's supersized! And beautiful. A February special. Funny how even this month has its fair share of stunning surprises.

Snowy Sunday

Stop Sign, the cat who has been hanging out at the farmette, on and off, ever since she was a kitten, the one who this winter had a litter of her own and brought two of her kittens to the farmette's garage less than a month ago, had disappeared yesterday, along with her two babes (who were more like adolescents by now). We found blood in the garage and expected the worst.

Near midnight, I went out for the thousandth time in search of any traces of a cat and in calling her name, I saw Stop Sign coming toward me from the direction of the barn. I took food to the barn and left it there. I checked a half hour later and saw that she had eaten a chunk of it. By then, she had disappeared once more into the night.

Today, I am up early. The snow is coming down hard and I find myself shoveling the walkway to the farmhouse door many times. All day long -- snow falls, Nina shovels. Light, pretty snow, but it's a misleading loveliness: we still have a horrible thick layer of ice underneath. Walking is very tricky: you never know if and when you'll slide over a solid pane of ice.





As I step outside, I look up and there is Stop Sign again. She is coming out of the garage. I give her more food and then I go down to take care of the cheepers. As I walk back to the garage, I hear the saddest cat wails coming from within. Snowdrop is besides herself with grief. Her two babes are gone and they aren't coming back and she knows it. And now I know it too: two young cats, gone.

I stay in the garage and talk to Stop Sign for a long long while. She wont let either of us come too close: she trusts us only to a point. You want to hold her, comfort her, but she wont let you. It's not what she is used to. She straddles that blurry line between feral and domesticated. She is, in so many ways neither.  She knows us, relies on us for food, hangs out near us when the sun is out and we're working the garden. But she is at this point a creature of the wild. We don't know if she'll ever cross over toward domesticity. My guess is that she'll always come and go, but truthfully, I don't know. 



Breakfast. Ed does come down for it, but I spare him the photo. We're both treading gently with each other, not placing too many demands, not asking for too many favors.






I do have a wonderful distraction today (and I have to say, I need it badly). Because her father is recovering from surgery, I bring Snowdrop to the farmhouse for the day. Her mom has a lot on her plate right now and Snowdrop loves having a long, unhurried day of play here.

And the snow keeps on falling...






And the drive today is long and along the slippery roads...

Once I pull into the farmette driveway, I want nothing more than to check on Stop Sign and head inside. But Snowdrop has other ideas.






She has this toy chicken. It's something to do with the movie Moana that has so thrilled her this past week. In any case, she wants to show the chicken to the cheepers and so we make our way to the barn.

I haven't told the little girl that Cupcake is no longer part of the pack. Nor have I told her about Dance and Jacket, the kittens. It's not that she doesn't understand hawks' (or was it an owl?) predatory behaviors. Too, she is familiar with violent death. She told me today (as part of one of her stories) that a super hero killed an evil thing and that it was a good thing because the evil thing was really really bad! (Where she got this is beyond me. When in doubt, point the finger at kids in school -- the source of all such wisdoms.) Still, I say nothing. I suppose I don't want any more sadness working its way into my day and so I put it all aside and she and I play...


 



.... and eat lunch...


 







... and read and tell stories until dusk draws near and it's time for me to pack her and a container of supper foods for the young family into the car and drive the whole sweet lot of them home.


And then I visit Stop Sign and talk to her some more, even as she is curled into a ball of sadness as she rests on the cardboard that was once a place of rest for the three of them, one on top of the other, in a beautiful display of kitten love.

rough winter

In all my years at the farmette (and granted, I've not lived here that long), I have not been forced to confront the reality of the natural world -- with all its beauty and pitfalls -- as much and as often as I have this winter. Maybe it's because these last months have been extremely cold. Or maybe it's sheer dumb luck -- somehow, for the most part, we felt that we had the upper hand here.

Humans have such hubris!

It is again cold. No Arctic blast, just plain old winter cold. We've been leaving the light bulb burning in the garage. The cats can get near it if they feel the need to warm up.

But despite the cold, the morning is lovely! Sunshine, that singular prettiness of a snow covered landscape -- it just makes you smile in total appreciation.






There are again no cats in the garage. Eh, I'm getting used to this: they're roaming! I leave out a little dry food and remind Ed to keep an eye out for when they return. They'll want their real grub right away!

We eat breakfast. Leisurely. Things are looking good all around.






And then I go off to meet up with my friend who is in town and happy to spend a long while reviewing life over a cup of coffee.






On the drive home, I pass the lesser lake. Do we have a bunch of dedicated ice fisher people or what??





I come into the farmhouse and ask after the cats.
Well, I'm not sure what's going on.

It turns out there's blood in the garage. And bits of fur. A feather, too.

There is no good explanation.

We must have had a visitor late last night (an owl?) or early this morning (a hawk?). Our best guess is that one kitten was taken away and the other ran away with the mom, Stop Sign.

That is a tough reality. Keeping the cats safe and well fed was something we took seriously. They had plenty of places to hide. How were they made vulnerable? Had this predator taunted them before? Is that why they left, then came back? So many questions now, ones without answers. Worse, they suggest a vulnerability that is still very much in play. We were to let the cheepers out in a few days. It seems now that whoever is keeping watch over the animals that live here would have ready food in them as well.

Ed asks -- Do you want to hand over the cheepers? We have a friend who raises chickens and would probably take our five girls. We don't want to keep them locked up in a coop year round. What's the point? They don't like it, we don't like it.

We do nothing for now. Processing this newest animal drama will take a bit of time. Ed reminds me that the life of a feral cat is usually very short. I can understand why: it's cold, food's tough to come by, cars are their enemy, and it looks like they're vulnerable to predators as well.


In the late afternoon, we go skiing. It's that or sit and watch the paths to see any sign of cats.






On the way home, we pass the usual fields of corn, farms, rural homes.

 



In one field, just short of a mile from the farmette, we pass three species of wildlife settling in for an evening feeding time: geese, deer, turkeys. There's a richness of life around us... with all the consequences that follow.



And in the evening, we go out. To our old favorite -- Brasserie V, where we huddle over mussels and fries...


 


... feeling comfort in a familiar spot, hoping so much that our sweet kitties are good and safe somewhere in the vast expanse of our rural lands, but knowing that probably, they're not safe anymore.

a Friday with a twist

Typically, Fridays are predictable  for me: shop for food, play with Snowdrop, cook dinner, go to sleep. With a few small additions, of course, but this is the core.

But today, I wake up to a phone call, which is never a good thing. I mean, who calls anyone these days except to relay a worry? Sure enough, it's my older daughter, telling me that her husband had the gall to get sick (the sentence gives a transparent hint as to what's wrong). He is out of circulation (indeed, out of the home) for several days. Normally, I would step up and offer more of my services, but it just so happens that another grandparent is visiting right now and so I am actually free for the day, even as it is an unusual day because there is this festering anxiety that always makes an appearance when someone in the family isn't quite up to snuff or is under the knife.

In the short run, the weekend, which was supposed to include a sleepover for both kids at the farmhouse -- is now completely rewritten, though it is unclear yet in what fashion.

Everything is a little topsy turvy.

Well, okay, but the day is sunny, so one tends to feel optimistic about pretty much everything that comes along.

I come out to feed the cats. Hi, beautiful snowperson!





But where are the cats? Gone again. This time, I have no horrific images of the little ones being snatched by some feline predator. I know they must have walked off -- two babes, following their mom. But why???

Don't they like it here?

Ed tells me that some cats will roam. And that's fine, but why would you set out adventuring before you had your morning meal? That seems terribly ill advised, no?
They know you'll dash out with food the minute they come back! 
If they come back. I suppose someday they'll just move on.

(Breakfast)






Oh but wait! Right around the noon hour they make an appearance again! All three! Where have you been in this bitter cold weather?? And yes, I'm immediately out there, scolding, feeding, fussing!

(Call it brunch)






(Followed by a nap)






In the afternoon, Ed and I go to the Arboretum with our skis. It takes a bit of pep talk (him to me, me to him) to get us out there -- I mean, it's really cold! -- but we do it!






And of course, it is so worth it. The light is beautiful, the snow is icy slick, and though there are no real ski runs, moving through the quiet of that vast woodsy space will take the wrinkles out of any day, really it will! 











Toward evening, I get reports that things are on the mend for the young family and really, in a few days, all should be back to near-normal again. You know, the regular normal, where we move seamlessly between homes, school, work and play, and all is right and beautiful and not dramatic or slightly twisted at all.

Val Day continued

Such a funny little Valentine! Mischievous, impish, beguiling. The sun came, albeit fleetingly. The temps soared -- up beyond 40F (5C), melting stuff, before tonight's deep freeze will recreate a layer of ice again. Everyone talked of how close we are to spring, forgetting for a while that we aren't anywhere near March 20th.

I go out to feed the cats, with a bounce to my step. Lots of footprints tell me deer have been visiting the farmette again. Perhaps other animals as well.






But where is Stop Sign?

The little ones are hiding again. The mother shield is missing. Their confidence is weakened.






Fortunately, they do come out to eat. Two little ones, alone.






Stop Sign does not show up in the course of the day. Perhaps this should not come as a surprise. In the past, she would leave her kitties in search of food. Eventually she lead them here. Is she telling them that they must now manage on their own? Or has she had an accident? Ed always says that the most dangerous "animal" for a rural cat is the human-driven vehicle.


Breakfast. Ed is being silly. Valentine silly.






And then we go skiing. Of course we do!






There's snow! It's warm enough! (Too warm, says Ed. Perhaps he is right -- by the end of our long run, our jackets are open.)






Our hearts are flying! Is that a cliché? Of course it is. I'm allowed -- it's Valentine's Day!

(Ed, by his favorite tree.)






In the afternoon, I pick up a happy Snowdrop. As we walk to the car, she shouts out -- we live in a big, huge place! It's so huge! So so huge!






At the farmette, I suggest outdoor play. She hesitates.






Maybe. But the lure of indoor routines is too great.
















But eventually, she is ready for snow play. But No mittens! Please, they don't feel right!

I let her suffer without mitts.






Well, she's not exactly suffering...






In fact, she is joyous! It is the first time we could readily build a snow person!






Much of Valentine's Day is enjoyed (pr exploited, depending on your holiday politique)in the evening  of February 14th. What was it like here, at the farmhouse? Good news! Ed goes out to the garage and finds that Stop Sign has returned! A day's reprieve from tending to her babes? A dalliance on this love day with her sweetie? Who can tell! I'm sure her babes are so very happy to see her back again!

Ed and I sit down to dinner, served on our little table in the living room. A tiny lobster tail or two (thank you, grocery stores for understanding our need for the easy and exquisite on this day!), an ear of corn, a piece of chocolate, a glass of bubbly.

Can we be more conventional??

Never resist the tried and true if it brings you joy. Happy days ahead to you all!

With love. ❤️