Tuesday, June 18, 2013

town and country

Did you notice that the only thing that separates him from us is a thin wire? -- Ed comments as I make little noises to get the bull to look my way.


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If he charges, I can climb a tree!
He laughs at that. You can? I suppose with enough adrenaline...

We are taking an evening walk. We pick one road, then another, always choosing the one that's closest to the mountain. Eventually it'll turn into a dirt road and I suppose if you kept on walking in this way, you'd get to the next village and the next -- all the way to the sea. Or to the ocean, if you head west.

We're surrounded by cork oak. It's always disconcerting to see the bottom of the tree stripped of bark -- as if someone ripped the pants off of a grown man and now he can't find a replacement pair, at the same time that the rest of his torso remains clothed in a shirt and jacket.


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Still, I love the forest walk. These hill towns are beautifully rural -- you forget about that as you zip by car from village to sea, to next village, or store, or town. Tonight, we leave the car behind.


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It is especially gratifying to take to the rural road after spending the better part of the day in Figueres.

Earlier, I had asked our hosts -- why don't we ever see you at the market here? I know they are both great cooks and yet I've never bumped into them at the Sorede food stalls.
We go to Figueres -- they have a large market there on Tuesdays.

Figueres -- that's in Spain. Forget that.

Or maybe we shouldn't forget it? I check on Google. Only a forty-five minute drive. And, beside the market, Figueres is home to THE Dali Museum -- one he designed himself. Meaning, it's going to be funky crazy interesting.

Some years back, we went through Dali's home on the coast. That was memorable. But we've driven past Figueres and never stopped. To go to a town for a museum, even THE most famous Dali museum, or perhaps especially because it has a VERY FAMOUS museum -- that's just not how we proceed.

Still, a market and a Spanish (well actually Catalan, but let's not quibble) town and such a short drive... We'll do it!

It's terrifically good coincidence that the day is rather gray. Clouds are moving between the mountains and the  plain. You get so used to sunshine here that when it disappears for a day or two, you feel really unsettled and out of kilter.


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And so we set out. It's strange to be heading to Spain -- as if we were leaving Sorede -- good bye! See you next time!  -- those are my associations with driving south. Still, it's a short sprint and Figueres is not a big town (population c. 45,000) and our hosts have given us plenty of tips on how to enter, where to park, even where to have our morning coffee. Here:


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People watching in Figueres is an entirely different game than, say, in Sorede. Figueres feels Spanish. Figueres feels urban, or at least connected to the urban world. [Notably, you can now actually take the high speed train all the way to Paris, with only one change. Five and a half hours and you're before the Eiffel Tower. It makes Figueres feel like it's one of the important places in Europe. Which, for art lovers, it is.]


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Okay, a nice long linger at the cafe. I can tell that Ed is tickled about being in Spain again. It's always more fun having a common language with the people in the place you're visiting and in France, he's often out of luck, relying on my translations rather than on his own skills. Here, he is understood.


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Now the market. It's big. It's repetitive. There are many stalls with similar produce. So that if you're looking for oranges (on our list), you go from one, to the next, to the next, until you settle on your preferred fruits (cheapest, if you're with Ed).


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It is supremely interesting to walk through it, though I see it more as a functional market (rather than, say, Ceret's, which is also visually stunning).



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After a thorough inspection, we're ready for the museum.

What's this? A line?

Ed -- let's skip it.
We've come all this way and we're going to skip it?
We came for the town and the market.

But it may be funky cool inside.
A bunch of paintings...

Typically, we can talk ourselves out of most any museum with a long line, but somehow this one intrigues me enough that I push for staying.



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the craziness starts before you even go in. If you find yourself torn as to what in this is consequential, just focus on the statue (upper left) with a baguette on her head. What, need a close up? Okay, there are many...



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In the end, was the long wait worth it? Ed says later -- I was thinking while standing in line that Dali himself would have never done this. He would have gone on to do something more interesting. Yes, but was it worth it? You decide:


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why do only women want to have their photo taken by the Cadillac?




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school group, pondering.




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the paintings, the visitors.




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Dali said the viewers are integral to the art. Indeed.




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ceiling fresco




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this one you have to look at through a green screen. Recognize any of the characters?




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this is a tapestry of the image that, to my knowledge, sits in MoMA in NY. Ed used the occasion to explain to me Einstein's theories on time and light (shamefully, my high school science knowledge of either had... faded). I liked reading later that Dali, when asked if he was reflecting on Einstein when creating this piece of art, answered -- no, I was merely thinking of a Camembert cheese melting in the sun.




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to understand the beauty of this, you really have to stand there and use both eyes to see the entirety; but I thought I'd tease you a bit with the possibilities.



I'll say this -- when you hit a crowded room, you just wanted to get out already. And I can give you a heads up which nationalities were especially pushy today (those way to the north and to the east). And I can also tell you that not every room was crowded (I don't understand that, as you sort of follow a room progression) and not everyone was pushy.


As we were leaving, I speculated if it would be better to spread one artist's work around the globe. I mean, it's not as if there is a choice: Dali wanted a concentration and a stylized presentation. This is NOT a boring just plain old canvas on a wall type of place. Still, as we glossed over some twenty paintings with a stone theme to them, I wondered how much more attention they would get if each one were delivered to a town that otherwise could boast no Dali at all.

Another way of putting it is that you surely have your fill of Dali by the time you leave Figueres.



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As we drive into the hill towns of the French side of the Pyrenees, I have that same feeling of delight -- of coming home to a quiet world of sleepy villages with debates raging about such inconsequentials as which bakery should produce today's lunch bread. The cool BEST bread bakery won today and as we pull in, I notice that the lunch menu has entrecote frites and moulles gratinee on it. Well now -- it's been many many months since I've eaten beef. I suddenly feel that once in a blue moon craving for steak with home made fries. If they would still serve lunch (it's already 3), we are ready to eat it (give Ed some mussels and good bread with them and the guy's content).


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So again we flip our meals and again we are left with bread and cheese for supper.


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And again we have no complaints. None whatsoever.

Monday, June 17, 2013

linden

We came to Sorede in good time to take in the fragrance of the blooming linden tree on the square. Whereas I may be somewhat appreciative of having landed squarely in on a tardy cherry season and I may, too, love that we're in time for the apricots and nectarines -- these seasonal highs all pale when weighed against being in time for the showing of the linden flowers.

It's a hardy tree -- it grows in Poland as well as in Sorede. If ever you find yourself in any European country in late May (or this year -- June), find a linden and dream heady dreams underneath its dainty sweetly scented flowers.


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Monday. We're following the commercial inclinations of Soredians: it's a slow wake up day. For example, the two butchers are closed entirely, as is the Ciboulette grocer. The two good restaurants here -- shuttered as well. Nothing seems rushed on Monday.

We're slow too. Slow to wake up, late for the old bakery, late to decide where to go.

But, the pain au chocolat are still there (everyone else was slow to get to them) and our neighbors down the hill are selling cherries and the cafe bar is, as ever, ready for us.


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(Though we're late enough that our brilliantly on top of things waitperson is already setting the tables for lunch. I post this photo for the fleeting glimpse of her and for the Ed smile that I finally manage to record, after too many failed efforts all morning long.)


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And the perfume of the linden trickles down to us and the world is a good place to inhabit.


Lunch.

A wholewheat baguette (not nearly as good as the real deal, but we had to try it), leftover cheeses and the incredible lucque olives.


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I mix up cherries from three different vendors hoping Ed will not notice, but he spots the differences instantly. We talk about our young orchard back home and we speculate how those cherries will compare.


Late afternoon.

Do you realize that our entire effort today has been to go to town, buy pain au chocolat, eat it, return home and eat lunch? (Interspersed with naps by some of us, but I didn't say that out loud.)
Ed's response is groggy. Huh? Okay...
Wake up, Ed!

We pack our bag with the essentials and, under my prodding, head to Le Racou beach. It's nearly evening: a few back and forth swim laps would do us good.

How naive I am! The brutal winds that regularly pass through here do not quickly disappear. In Sorede, the air is almost still. By the sea -- whoof! Quiet little Racou has a pounding surf, gusts that rip umbrellas from their perch...


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...and a red flag warning not to swim.

But hey. We are by the sea, the air is warm, the world is far away. We anchor the umbrella with sand and we settle in for several hours of reading. Occasionally I have to wipe my glasses, because the spray from the sea blows a layer of salt on everything in its path, but nonetheless, it's a wonderful time -- almost like watching an adventure movie with popcorn on your lap: the raging sea is yours to take in, safely, from the good up-front seats.


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Supper.

We go to the pizza place at Le Racou.  I am keenly aware of the fact that this may be our last supper here this year. Very keenly aware of it. In fact, much of the second week in Sorede is like that, though this year with an added twist -- we wont be back next June. September 2014 -- that's all I can ask for. But I haven't heard a "yes, sure" yet. In the end, life isn't nearly as predictable as some of us would like it to be.


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Sunday, June 16, 2013

joyeuse fête des pères

Happy Father's Day,  you, you dads out there! My daughters' dad included!

Ed is not a father. I used to tease him with a "do you know for sure?" and "maybe a child was hidden from you!" He'd think a while, shrug it off and continue with his reading (Ed reads copious amounts, constantly).

Perhaps his lack of commitment to being a dad is what causes him to be so affectionate with stray cats.


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(The cat here who loves Ed best is one without a tail and with a very remarkable face.)


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...Or with the stray person -- me -- that stumbled into his life nearly eight years ago. His quotient of affect hadn't yet been spent.

I think about this as we sit at the cafe bar on the square with our morning pains au chocolat, because in France, as in the States, today is Father's Day. One consequence -- the lines at bakeries are longer than usual.


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the two affable clerks who have been handing out bread in the old bakery for as long as I've been coming to Sorede



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the good bakeries put two strips of chocolate into their pain


And, too, it's harder to eat today without forethought or a plan, as many eating venues fill up in the afternoon and close for the evening.

From what I can tell, Father's Day here isn't so much a gift giving day, it's an eating day, which distinguishes it from other Sundays not a whole bunch and here's the irony -- because this day is special, prepared foods (rotisserie chickens, for example) are especially popular! 'Special' means someone outside the family cooks it for you. The local shop in Sorede that sells only take out foods (chicken and shrimp, bouillabaisse, etc) is so swamped that it stopped taking requests for this Sunday many days ago.

And so as we approach our cafe bar...


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... in the wee hours of the morning (circa 10:30) I'm thinking ahead to dinner. And what a delightful surprise -- I see that the boucherie on the square has a chalk board out  and it announces that they're making paella today. In an hour, it'll be ready in an hour -- the jovial butcher tells us, glancing over his shoulder to the kitchen where the wife is stirring something intensely fragrant. As always, he punctuates his sentences with bellows of song. The man loves his job alright. Or singing. Or both.

We had left our bread and pain and books at the cafe table and the waitress, in spotting us, put out the usual without even waiting for a request. Cafe creme and Perrier with ice.


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We spend a wonderful hour eating, sipping, reading and, in my case, watching fathers take pride in their sons and daughters.


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We pick up the tub of paella from the proud cook and she is kind enough to go easy on the sausage (Ed foibles). In the background, her husband butchers meats and whistles.


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It is a warm day. Sunny skies, calm winds. Beach weather!

But first, lunch. On the terrace. Ed has just finished repairing my broken sandal (yes, I'm thankful that he rarely travels without an extra piece of rope, just in case...) and so I am feeling appreciative, not so much in the mood for challenging his views on, for example, fatherhood. [One frustration that you could have in discussing parenthood with Ed is that there are the articulated views and there is behavior and the two do not necessarily fit well into a coherent whole.]


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We linger over the cherries, we forget that there's half a Napoleon left in the refrigerator. Warm, so warm. A quick nap -- just a wee little doze...

I wake up an hour later to that howling wind. This is something I have learned about southern France -- its winds are like no other. The sky will be clear, the sun will be radiantly brilliant and yet, when the winds set it, watch out! It makes demons out of people, they say.

I ignore the wind and say to Ed - how about the beach just north of here? Me, I never once swam there. The waters have always been too choppy. But, the air is warm, the sun's out, why not head out to something that's not just one of our favorites?

So why wasn't I paying attention to the wind? The calm waters of the Mediterranean are dancing some crazy jig: it is wild out there!


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Ed is delighted. He plunges in. Again and again. And of course, I have about ten moments when I think the sea has swallowed him and I worry about whether I should call forth a search party, but each time he emerges with a grin, only to disappear again. This happens again and again. Our love of the sea is so different! So very very different!

Ed, we have nothing in common!

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How many hundred of times have we said this/thought this? So how is it that we still end the day in the way that we always do -- eating nuts and touching limbs and sharing stories that one of us has read in one place or another?

Come in, come in - he beckons now from the sea. No, not my kind of waters. Instead, I walk the length of the seashore, admiring  it all -- the children...


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...the windsurfers...


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...the fathers and daughters, fathers and sons...


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Dinner. So simple, so delicious! I want to write an email to all the butchers in Madison. Something like this: dear butcher of Madison, On the off chance that you want to make some extra cash, how about mixing up some take-out paella every now and then? I think you'd strike gold! We all love Thai take out and some people love Chinese takeout, but a butcher back home with a takeout menu that includes paella? I think that's not been tried before!


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The winds roar in from the mountains. A wild and brilliant Father's Day.  Hey, you dads out there -- was the food good? Did you kid(s) let you know they loved you?


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