Thursday, August 03, 2017

Thursday

A gray, stormy buggy muggy day. Yes, I do understand: it cannot be a daily bill of blue skies and cool summer breezes. Still, I almost decide not to clean the garden. I have a "what for..." attitude!

Then I remember that tomorrow I most likely will not have time to clean the garden and the weekend looks rather mad as well, so out come the mosquito pants, the jacket, the hood and bucket in hand, I tell myself -- oh, just a few... Which always leads to a complete job because once you start, why stop?


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Besides, the spent lily count is once again going down (364 today) which means that the wilted blooms are more visible if you let them dangle, but on the upside -- it takes less time to snip them off.

Let me put up a quad of closeups, just to give August colors some prominence here:

(red-faced, with beads of rain on their pretty petals!)

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(blushing a more delicate pink -- a rare modesty for an August garden)


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(I think of these as screamy mimis!)


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(tall and sophisticated)


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Alright, I am so glad I did my work! A view over the Great Bed:


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A view toward a corner of the porch:


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And finally breakfast with Ed and no, he is not surly, even though he surely looks like the guy who doesn't like his granola today.


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Let's cheer him up with a view from the porch onto the gardens!


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But you know who is really in a superb mood? Snowdrop. Despite the fact that we cannot do any of her favorites -- pool? forget it... it's threatening to thunder; playground? we'll have to see... -- she comes out with a zest for the day that is disarming!


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But in fact, as we set out toward the coffee shop, I see the dark clouds pushing their way in. I hurry. No lingering today, Snowdrop! Let's pick up our peach and strawberry scone and run like crazy back to the car!

She loves it. When I pause to catch my breath, she prods me -- Gaga! Run like crazy! And then laughs with all her heart at the ridiculousness of it all.


(Passing the cranes, Snowdrop always greets them and, in my best crane voice, I greet her right back on their behalf!)


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At the farmhouse, I change her in preparation for an outing she has later in the day with her mommy. She is impish and full of fun, darting away from me, finally allowing her self to be caught but only because Ed is ready with the polka music.


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And she tells me  -- look, gaga! I'm dancing without a sweater!


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Indeed, little one! You surely are in control here! And today, you are full of play! (Ahah goes after her with a wolf puppet...)


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Finally, a bit of quiet play...


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... followed by a nap.

After, well, you don't imagine the little one has forgotten about her babies, do you?
Ed wonders why it is that I encourage her "girlie play." I do laugh at that: with Snowdrop, as perhaps with many kids, you can encourage a lot of things, but a child will always have her favorites and honestly, I do not know what really fuels that love. Neither of my girls loved baby dolls. Snowdrop adores hers.

Character play (inventing stories with tiny figures) was big in their lives -- it is in Snowdrop's life as well. The girl likes to build -- but with a purpose, not for its own sake. She has infinite patience in trying to make things work and loves (more than my girls did) watching someone (Ed comes to mind) fix things. Snowdrop thinks the idea of camping is the coolest thing on the planet. My girls were never sold on that. So... what pushes a child to love one thing over the next? Sure, there's the parental (perhaps sometimes grandparental) hand, but there is something more that guides them in any given direction.

Here she is, after her nap, tending to her three babies, just in the twenty minutes or so before her mommy comes to pick her up:


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Later, much later, Ed and I motorbike over to our local farmers market. I'll not show you pics of produce, even though in this low key market, you can get many images without spectator interference. It's never crowded.

But I will return to the sandhills that we pass on out way out. (Snapped from the backseat of the motorbike.)


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These birds, in my view, are beyond beautiful. Cranes evoke for me and for many others something that is quite spiritual. Perhaps it's in the birds' movement. Or the way the bird reacts to your presence: with a touch of fear, but ultimately -- with grace.

To me, it is beyond sad that there is a proposal to introduce a crane hunt in Wisconsin. These great birds have a long life span, but they produce few offspring. The argument is that they do some damage in spring to the emergent corn crop, but hey, they also control insect populations and scientists claim that that it isn't that hard keeping them out of the fields in the fragile season.

I'm not a scientist. I can't speak knowledgeably about ways to protect this most graceful bird and the farmer's corn crop. But I do know that the crane stirs Snowdrop too: both of us regard spotting these birds in the field as a highlight of our afternoon.


Storms rumble through. Rains, thunder -- all of it. Let's end on an upnote though.  Perhaps the cranes will keep returning here. Without threat from the likes of us humans. Perhaps the bugs will recede and the rains will subside.

Perhaps.

I mean, one has to trust that a rainbow does grace our skies every now and then and the world is a kind and hospitable place for us all.


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Wednesday, August 02, 2017

Wednesday

Today was to be a day of no obligation. No commitment, no rules, no lists, no schedules. (Unexpectedly, Snowdrop had an activity for the afternoon and so I did not need to pick her up, nor bring her to the farmhouse.)

So you'd think I'd turn this day on its belly and cavort left and right with the freedom that it offered! You'd think I would do something big -- explore the world, take Ed out on a breakfast date (hey, that would be very big!), or read a whole book, or write a whole book! Days with nothing scheduled are so rare -- use it well, use it creatively!

Well, okay, but first I must clip the garden (oh, that counting habit has really stuck: 450 spent lily blooms this morning).


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So many colors in an August garden! Is there any color that's missing? Sure -- it's a rare flower bed that will have a true blue in the second half of summer.


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You do have to be very careful when you snip spent blooms. For example, if you move fast and your head is covered with mosquito netting, you can very well miss this:


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What, you're not seeing it? She blends well into the background, warts and all!

Okay, garden work done! Pots watered! (Yep, from wet weeks, we have moved to a dry week: pots don't like dry weeks.) Lilies cleared!


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Breakfast? For the first time since I can remember, Ed is not hungry, not even for fruit. Too much pizza last night!
I'll keep you company -- he offers.

Well fine -- I may as well buck my own trend and eat something that is not oatmeal. It would be cool to have a bakery within spittin' distance, but the closest good croissant is 15 minutes away by car, so I reach for a bread product that is now two days old -- Snowdrop was to have it for snack but hey, it's now available! Heat it for a few secs in the oven, add tasty jam, and with eyes closed, you can pretend it's just baked.


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From the porch, looking out... (This is why we linger for such a long time over breakfast!)


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Ed has a scheduled lunch meeting and so now is my time to truly soar into new levels of solo adventuring!

Instead, I fill a bucket with soapy water, climb up on the porch roof and scrub the window panes clean.

It so happens that the pollen in the air really clings to glass and despite torrential downpours, our glass roof has a thin coating of plant dust. I'm sure no one would notice or care, but we know it's there and I really do love a sparkly clear glass roof. So I scrub.

On the upside, it takes a mosquito a very long time to discover that there is a human form way up high in the sky and so none reach me until the very end and by that time it's too late -- I've done my work. (In other words, I have a lovely hour working outside without bug interference.)

Too, and more importantly, I get an aerial view of my flower beds. For instance, here's a look at the Great Bed that borders the path to the sheep shed and barn.


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This is the time to sing to yourself (not necessarily quietly -- on the roof, the world is yours)! Predictably, I stick with this beautiful old number:




Later, much later, Ed and I zip over to the farm up the road to pick up what will be our August staple:


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It's incredible corn! Really, you cannot compare it to the stuff you buy elsewhere. And right now it is at its best -- young, tender and sweet.

The storms that were predicted for this evening moved elsewhere and so Ed is out biking (as is his habit on summer Wednesday evenings). And it strikes me that I ought to bike too! A short but intense loop! Up the scenic rural road, to check on how a favorite prairie is faring.


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We live in a beautiful spot. We really do. Every once in a while, Ed asks -- do you want to move somewhere where there are no mosquitoes? He isn't really serious, but were I to waffle, we'd push the thought one step further. Of course, I gasp in horror and remind him that my family is here (which he well knows).

But honestly, we do love our small corner of the planet. We wish there weren't the mosquitoes -- this is true. But we cope and wiggle our way around them. Bugs are everywhere. We've had tremendous mosquito encounters in Canadian Rockies, in New York's Adirondacks, in Michigan's Upper Peninsula. And if it's not mosquitoes, then I'll find other reasons why one place is less perfect than another.

But forget the bugs. Look instead at what else this place has to offer each and every day: beauty, peace, seasonal change. And family nearby. Pretty close to ideal, don't you think?

Tuesday, August 01, 2017

Tuesday

What changes when July morphs into August? Little stuff: the garden shifts to a deeper set of colors, but with fewer blooms. I walk with snippers to take out not only spent flower heads, but also stalks that in many places are completely bare now.

Still, the garden feels luxurious.


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And I'm certainly not at the end of the lily run. 481 snipped blooms this morning!


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What else changes? The light is still intense and if the days are shorter, I don't notice it. I'm working outside a tad later this morning and I feel the heat of that August sunshine.

(Scotch, I liked you a heck of a lot more before you upped your pecking of poor Henny, who hides from you all the time now...)


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Breakfast, on the porch, but also in the company of a skype visit with Ed's colleague and friend (there is a computer on the table...)


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And shortly after, I'm off to pick up Snowdrop...


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There is no doubt that today is a great day for the pool.


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It remains reasonably calm, which surprises me no end! Does August mean that the summer programs are finished and the buses are no longer bringing hordes of energetic kids this way?


At the farmette now, Snowdrop appears to have forgotten about her sweater and I smile to myself as she continues to play, oblivious of her "bare arms."


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(Ha! No sweater!)


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... until she remembers. Ah well -- small steps!


I try to rush things a bit today because we have important plans! For me, the first of August will always stand for a birthday -- my older daughter is 36 today.

Thirty-six?! I remember when she was just short of three (we were in England for the summer, I was pregnant with her younger sister) -- in other words, close to Snowdrop's age!


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Oh! Let's compare two pool shots: one of Snowdrop, from today, the other of her mommy, 33 years ago at a bed and breakfast pool in York (where the temps were... nippy!).


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For Snowdrop, it's mommy's birthday. So... special mommy time is in order....


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And then we all go out for dinner. (Ed and I, on his motorbike -- a chance for a selfie once we get off!)


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Snowdrop is a bit wired tonight. But why should we be surprised? She's had a packed day once more and she is terribly hungry for a good meal.


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Here's a group shot...


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And a quieter moment...


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Another month, another birthday, another beautiful summer day. Tomorrow, I am slowing down considerably, because after that -- well, the month is one huge whirligig of happenings!

Monday, July 31, 2017

Monday

Life isn't linear and neither is the evolution of a garden. There will be surprises in both, life and garden.

One surprise this morning is that there seems to be a lot to do outside. Picking spent lilies, I'm counting and the numbers seem high.  (Total for today: 586.)

Never mind -- everything's so beautiful right now: the lilies are mingling with the rest and it is such a happy camaraderie!


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(The cheepers always keep me company for all my morning tasks. Well, two of them do. Henny is still hiding out in the coop. Possibly she is terrified of Scotch, but, too, she is brooding, believing that becoming a mommy will do away with all her problems with acceptance and inclusion.)


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(The Great Bed, still strong, even if it is the last day of July...)


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(The front bed, dainty and playful...)


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Breakfast.


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View to the yard from our table on the porch...


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And very quickly it's noon and I'm scurrying to the bakery to pick up croissants (for Snowdrop) and cookies (for Ed) and now I am at the little girl's school.

She wears that look of a girl who was let down by a friend. And she was. Oh, to you and me, it's a nonevent, right? Snowdrop walked out with a tiny, really tiny sticker of a bird with a big yellow beak. A classmate, leaving at the same time, reached over to try to pull the sticker from Snowdrop's hand. Snowdrop uttered several words of surprise, but the girl persisted. The mother finally suggested that it might be Snowdrop's turn to play with said sticker. The girl eventually gave up her grip, but the teeny sticker was damaged. Snowdrop's face here expresses her disappointment.


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And now I remember what it's like to care deeply about the way kids treat each other out there on the playground of life. It's not that I think kids are born knowing how to do right by their friends. But if you witness something that you don't think is a good move on the part of your kid, why wouldn't you use this as a teaching opportunity? Why wouldn't you intervene and express dismay?

Oh, I know: it's just a (ripped now) sticker. I've heard the arguments: let the kids work it out. And they will. But I have to say, if I ever saw Snowdrop (or decades earlier my daughters) grab and destroy something precious belonging to another, I would be appalled.

I am so old school in this.

(Snowdrop, at the cafe, contemplating life...)


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(She has a snack. She rebounds.)


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Snowdrop has had a very busy weekend and she is visibly tired. But the pool gloriously revives her.


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(She asks to wear her water shoes in the pool. Sure, little one!)


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Her vim and vigor are restored.


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Later, we drive back to the farmhouse. I tell the little one that the fields are now mostly harvested and stacked into bales of hay. I haven't seen any sandhill cranes this morning. Perhaps they've moved on?

Snowdrop doesn't buy it. Kids have eternal hope and this girl's no different.

And today, she is rewarded: at least two of the graceful birds have returned.


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At the farmhouse. Snowdrop has had such a long day, but she is driven to her babies nonetheless. Ice cream for everyone!


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(Feelings of mommy love...)


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You rarely see that serious look of duty and responsibility on this two year old's face. I'm thinking -- it's so easy just to relish in Snowdrop smiles. But honestly, don't you want your charge to live through her woes and tribulations on your time, so that you can guide her to a better place? Out of deep waters and onto safer terrain?

And the summer sun keeps on shining and the flowers keep on blooming...