Sunday, August 04, 2024

Stockholm Sunday

The Villa Dagmar (where I am staying in Stockholm) is lovely, really lovely, though I can see how you may find yourself in a room that is a disappointment. There are ones facing the courtyard, which makes you feel like you're in one of those big hotels with an atrium, shut off from the outside world. Being a very intense student of hotel offerings when I book rooms, I was lucky enough to have noticed this and so I asked for something with windows to Stockholm and that was a real win. The room is perfect.

(the view from the top 4th floor room)


 

That courtyard, though, does have its benefits. It actually is a space between the two arms of a U building and like my hotel in Copenhagen, it has a glass roof. They dont trust such a space to good weather. Outdoor dining n Stockholm has to be a rare thing. Is it ever warm and sunny here? The skies very much remind me of Scotland, though if you look at a map, you'll see that Stockholm is actually further north than the north coast of Scotland and because of its topography, it gets way colder here than it does, say, in Tongue.

The main hotel courtyard has a little sister courtyard (also glass covered) on the other side of the U and this is where you can have your breakfast. They ask you "do you want to eat outside?"  and if you say yes, they lead you there. Oh, those Swedes! If you can't lead the outdoor life, you can at least pretend.

It is a lovely space and the breakfast buffet is lovely too. A marker of a good one to me is when the fruit offerings go beyond the ubiquitous and tasteless hotel melon.

 



Of course they have the cinnamon rolls. We are in Sweden, no?




My breakfast, while I wait for my poached egg to arrive: fruit over yogurt and granola and the bread products...




What's the plan for the day? Well, it might rain in the afternoon, but for now it's looking good! I had the idea of going to a small park beyond the old town, but in writing to my nephew I changed my mind. The thing is, my nephew and my sister lived in Stockholm for a number of years. In fact, I don't know that they aren't both (or one of them?) Swedish duals by now. So when my nephew wrote that he really liked the bigger park called Djurgarden, it became a done deal -- I'm off to Djurgarden.

Djurgarden used to be the Game Park of the royals, but these days it is one green space, with small sections devoted to specific pleasures. A rose garden. A plant and plant products shop and orchard. A lake with some wildlife. A museum, a gallery... So, many treasures, surrounded by nature. What could be better for a Sunday?!

My nephew wrote that he used to take walks around the perimeter of the island (because the park is actually one big island), starting with the north shore and continuing around to the south. That is what I did. 

The park is about a half hour walk from my hotel, but the whole excursion took four hours (and just about 20 000 steps -- I just checked!) because I took small detours and paused to take a few photos. 

The northern shore was my favorite (and this is where 95% of the photos come from) and the Skansen Park -- a separate enclosure with buildings and activities depicting old world Swedish life which I visited toward the end  -- well, I could have done without that. We have an Old World Wisconsin, and I think both themed park areas are more of a kid thing. Old people don't really need to observe the habits of way back when. Their lives go back to way back when! 

So, let's go for a walk! On a Sunday in Stockholm.

(to the park, over the bridge...)


 

 (looking back toward the city)



(so pretty! I note they're all annuals...)


(a young mom and geese, though not the Canadian ones we have back home...)



(Impressive: the gender balance in the statues I passed! This one is of an opera star from Sweden)



(This one represents the desire for peace and disarmament)


Do you suppose Swedish parental leave laws have anything to do with this next picture? FYI, here, parents are entitled to 480 days paid parental leave; each parent can take up to 240 of the days, though if you're a single parent, you can take the full 480. 




(A bird in a rowan tree; yes, I'm still into birds. And rowan trees, which I never see in the U.S.)



(A statue of a child on a swan...  or is it a heron?)



I loved this center for growing things. It's called Rosendals Trädgård and it's a short detour inland: you could admire the "biodynamic cultivation of vegetables, fruits and flowers" in the garden, you could buy plants; you could sit at one of the tables in the orchard with foods and drinks from the cafe; you could go to the little gift shop and buy more foods and cards and books and dish cloths -- all organic, or about Swedish foods, or about Swedish plants.

 









(Like the Canal du Midi only different)



(Herons in the wildlife area)



Along the south shore, I thought for a moment I was looking at New Jersey across the Hudson... until I saw the cruise ships.




The rain came down as I climbed the hills of Skansen. No photos. Too much thunder and wetness. Here, do you see the storm coming?

 

 

Earlier than predicted but no matter! I came prepared!

 



By 2:30 I needed a chair. And a coffee. You know, a fika moment! My goal -- to find Pascal Cafe/Bakery. Another one of those beloveds. Back over the bridge, to the center of town.

 

 

 

Of course, the rain put that same thought into the heads of others. My destination -- Pascal Kafebar was crowded! Every tiny seat in their tiny space was taken!




So I studied pastries...

 


 

... chose my two (cardamon and a lemon/poppy) and my coffee, and waited.

It didn't take long.




I sat across the entrance-way from a small group of three women and two children. I dont know if they were sisters with mom, or friends, or aunts, or what. Indeed, I understood not a single word they said. So strange is Swedish to me that I could not even tell if they were speaking Swedish. Not being shy about such matters, I asked. Indeed. Swedish.




As I watched and listened (to their tone), it struck me how little I know about the culture here. About the manners and respected traits. Are Swedes stuffy and pretentious or mellow and laid back? Are they judgmental or indifferent? Everyone I have spoken to has been gently friendly, but of course, these were all transactional situations so all I can infer is that they appear to be uniformly kind to visitors. I can tell you one thing for sure: women and girls here do like white lacy frocks (note the one above). I see them not infrequently!

It's tough to travel in a country where you do not speak the language. Your observational opportunities are limited. Or at least you cannot make too many assumptions based on what you see. Only educated guesses. (The more you see, the more educated you become!)

 

I return to my hotel, take a short pause and head out again. Quickly. To the department store which happens to be in a mall about 12 minutes from my hotel, though I walked so briskly that I'm sure it was half that. What for? Well, just blame it on the grandkids. It was a hurried crazy run because I left the hotel at 4:25 and all stores close here at 5 on Sundays. Nonetheless, I am a skilled fast shopper! (Nor was there much choice, making it that much easier.) 

 

And now I am not moving from my hotel until it's time to go to the airport early tomorrow. Wait, what about dinner, you ask? Well, I'm eating at the hotel restaurant. My room comes with a package: a small credit for anything you purchase on the premises (except for alcoholic beverages). It actually comes out to be the price of a  three course meal. Of course I'm going to use it!




And it was okay. True, the chantarelle appetizer appeared to have absolutely not a single chantarelle in it (they say it was there...), but hey, let's not be fussy. The shrimp pil pil (above), on the other hand, were good because shrimp in Scandinavia are invariably great, and the strawberry dessert, too (below), was good for the same reason.

 



Tomorrow, a mere 48 hours after landing in Stockholm, if all goes well, I'll be landing in Warsaw.

With a gentle Swedish embrace, and love...

Saturday, August 03, 2024

arriving in Stockholm

Luck was with me on my connection to Atlanta, luck was with me on my connection to Paris (where I landed at 6 in the morning on Saturday, thus in need of a morning breakfast treat)...







And luck remained with me on my flight to Stockholm (where I came in more or less on time, right around noon). I did have to check my suitcase -- it got too heavy for me to lift into the overhead. Once I decided to go that route, I relaxed in my packing and even threw in my flip flops in addition to the new sandals! The more useful item -- also a last minute decision on this one! -- for Stockholm at least, is an umbrella. The one and a half days I'm here are slated to have periods of rain -- tonight and tomorrow. And I am delighted. Rain means I need not be ambitious in my walks through the city. Rain means that I can take longer to head out in the morning and stay close to my hotel base. Yes, rain is my friend this weekend!

[An insert here about traveling alone as an "older" person: I have stamina. I have strength. I have drive. I have fortitude. What is less on my side is that I am easily distracted and thus forgetful. If I dont make a point of counting what I'm holding onto, chances are I'll put something down and forget about it. Like at the Paris airport, where I will have left my passport in the security screening tray. Or at the diner restaurant, where I will have put down my lens cap and then forgot all about it. Lost forever. I do that at home as well -- forget to take something while stepping out of the house, but of course, that is simply annoying and without much consequence. In travel, and especially after a sleepless night, I have to be more careful!]

In Stockholm, I'm staying at the Villa Dagmar. Finding an interesting hotel, centrally located (for me this means close to the best bakeries and to the market!) was not easy. Dagmar was a good fit. And my room is small but pretty!




Note the flowers. They asked if I wanted some in the room and if so, what kind. I said yes and please make them Swedish, in gentle colors. This is what I found:




Gorgeous!

So now what? It's not raining yet. I throw down my suitcase and head out.

Stockholm, they say, is a walkable city, concentrated in a small area and thus easy to navigate. Still, you have to have a goal, or at least a direction. This is a no brainer: I definitely want to see the older parts of the city (Gamla Stan, on the island). But before I get to that, I pop into the market, which actually has a secret doorway to it, straight out of my hotel.

It's a lovely and somewhat dignified market.


In addition to produce... (chantarelles! colorful tomatoes! strawberries!)...

 

 

... cheeses, fish and three kinds of lobsters...

 


 

 

... you could also buy one of these:




Their open-face sandwiches are so pretty and so tempting, but I resist. I'm focused on the bakeries, where I plan on following a Swedish tradition of stopping for "fika," which is their afternoon cake and coffee pause.

For this I go to Stora Bageriet -- one of the many bakeries with a solid following. There's a line, but not too long. And the pastries? Exactly as I had imagined them to be -- beautiful. My idea of the perfect, absolutely perfect companion to a milky coffee.

Which would you pick?




I walked away with two: the traditional cinnamon one (right, below) and the plum topped pastry (left, below). Superbly delicious, both of them.




I did not come all the way to Stockholm to limit myself to just one! I eat them at one of the numerous outdoor tables where I do some serious people watching.




(twins, dressed in Swedish colors...)



 I like my hotel neighborhood because it is on a street that for a good chunk of the day is totally car free, and the stores aren't for tourists, they're for Swedes. Or at least there are a lot of Stockholm locals. 

 

 

Walk over to Gamla Stan and everything changes: the old town is packed with visitors. I mean, not nearly as bad as some of the major capitals of Europe, but still, there are a lot of souvenir shops and people looking for souvenirs. 

 

 

 

Nonetheless, it's all very colorful. Much more so than I had imagined. And I also had not grasped the significance of the waterways here. I knew Stockholm was on the northern coast of the Baltic Sea, but the city itself is deeply inland -- part of an archipelago of many islands, and so I wasn't thinking I'd be always along a water's edge. And yet...




Stockholm is in fact spread over 14 islands and beyond that, there are thousands more and you can take a ferry ride to admire them. (If you stay on a ferry long enough -- like for about ten hours -- you can wind up in Turku, Finland.) Ferry rides take time and are a passive way of exploring a city you're visiting for only a day and a half, so I wont do any of that, but I do like walking along Stockholm's waterfront. (There is an unexpected cloudburst right as I get to the open waters, and of course I did not bring my umbrella along for the walk! Dumb me. No matter. I wait, it passes.)

 After crossing several bridges, I get to the island with the old town. I head toward its heart, which everyone would agree is at Strotorget Square. [On my walk there, I pass the Royal Palace. Sweden still has royalty -- the current monarch, Carl XVI Gustaf has been at it for quite a while -- since 1973! Talk about holding on to power past your prime!]

 


 

(Buildings along Strotorget Square)


 


I dont think of Stockholm as a real museum city, though they do have a very old ship you can admire at the Vasa (maritime) Museum and high on the list of popular sights is also the ABBA museum. No thanks. I prefer to just walk.


(Off the beaten path...)






((note pointy rooftops!)



Okay, I am officially tired. A brief pause at the hotel. And now it's time for dinner. I had chosen the Hantverket Restaurant for tonight's meal. I really do not remember why. I do these things back at the farmhouse when I have a spare hour -- I go through lists, check websites, and put in a reservation. 

People eat here at an earlier time and this makes me very happy, because I have not slept since my farmhouse night and even that wasn't restful because, as you may recall, I had to pack late into the night and get up early to catch my flight out. So I am tired.

And I want Scandinavian food! I order to fill that need. 

Mackerel, cucumber, potato crutons, yogurt...

 



Followed by rye bread toasts with chantarelles and spiced cheese, and finishing off with  strawberries with mascarpone ice cream and elderberry and strawberry consomme. I think there's a cookie in there as well.

 



The evening didn't quite end there. I'd been people watching and I'd noticed quite a few rainbow themed shirts and such out there. Too, Stockholm is bedecked with rainbow flags. Initially, I thought nothing of it. So the city is supportive of its LGBTQ community. No surprise there. But when I idly googled Gay Pride in Stockholm while waiting for dessert, I found out that actually this was Gay Pride week in Sweden and Stockholm had had a celebratory Gay Pride parade earlier today. Related to that, or maybe not related to it at all, there was a very glitzy drag queen joining some diners at the table behind me and after a while, she got tired of their company and came over to chat me up.

 



There was a lot of discussion of whether I should go out with them to some gay bars after dinner, but I gave a hard no to that. I'm twice their age and I've been traveling and I am dead tired. My late night bar hopping days are over under the best of circumstances. We settled for some photos and then I left.

So ends a very full day! Lovely city, lovely walks, great food, fantastic bakeries, friendly people. And aside from that one downpour, it didn't even rain. Yet. Maybe tomorrow! One can hope!

with love...


Friday, August 02, 2024

taking off

Early in the morning, I give a quick glance out on the garden. No snipping lilies. Just a look, and a smile.




I eat a very sentimental, very lovely breakfast on the porch with Ed keeping me company...




I water plants, I pause, trying to remember what else I may need in the next couple of weeks, and then Ed drives me to the airport and I catch a flight out, to Atlanta and then across the ocean.

Where to? Well, eventually to Poland.

I haven't been back since before Covid. On my last trip, in 2019, I still had my apartment in Warsaw and when I left, I didn't quite realize I'd never go back to it. (I sold it shortly after.) 

My returns to Poland have always been like that: very frequent and then, abruptly, I take a break. Sure, this time Covid pushed me to cancel any return, but once I resumed travel, I stayed away. Why? Well, it's complicated, but trust me, it felt right to do a short pause, especially since my friends came to visit me in Madison and then agreed to meetups in other European countries. 

But the itch to return, to visit, has definitely been nibbling away at me. 

This time, I'm not going straight to Warsaw. I'm stopping first for a couple of nights in Stockholm -- a city I do not know, a city that has great bakeries that I wish I did know, a city that I felt sure I would visit soon enough and yet I never got around to it. So, tomorrow I should be in Stockholm. See you then!

with love, of course!

Thursday, August 01, 2024

It's August 1st!

My last morning of lily snipping. Just short of 300 still, but I'm done with the rigorous daily garden cleanup. Let nature do her thing.

So, one last photo run of a basically July garden, on the 1st of August. (Can you believe it's already August?)

(good morning, green froggie!)



(good morning, chickens!)








Breakfast, on the porch. I do something rare: I cut four lily blooms for the table. Their numbers may be dwindling, but that's all the more reason to enjoy them at every opportunity!




I get things ready then. For my August travels. And for my older daughter's birthday celebration. Tonight, at the farmhouse, with her family.

This includes a bit of driving around. Errands, and importantly -- cake. I decided not to bake one myself (no time for it) and so I pick up a pre-ordered chocolate one, with raspberry spread, cream and chocolate glaze from Madison Sourdough.

At home I run through my to-do list, and very quickly it is time to pick up Snowdrop. Thursday is just Snowdrop day, which on this particular occasion is a good thing because the girl can amuse herself while I cook dinner. (So can Sparrow... most of the time. But he leaves a bigger paper trail. Literally! His paper craft projects are legendary!)




She sort of kind of helps with present wrapping...




And we read, but I warn her that I can only give her so much of my time. Someone needs to cook dinner! And still, when Ed gets ready to go to the local farmers market, she begs to go. I throw caution to the wind. We go.

For the cheese curds from John. The Lemon cookie from Tom and Cat. For the conversation (and tomatoes) from Natalie.




And more corn from Stoneman's.




And now I have to speed cook! My daughter asked for Crispy Gnocchi with Burst Tomatoes and Mozzarella.  I'm on it!




Oh, but let's welcome the arrivals and do a family photo outside!



Happy birthday, oldest, awesome child of mine!

Happy, happy birthday!

(cake, with sparklers!)


They birthday celebrations end, they pack up the leftover chunk of cake, gather together the gifts, and head home.

What a day!

And now if you'll excuse me, I have to run upstairs and pack.

With so much love!