Wednesday, April 09, 2025

Paris

Okay, to be fair, I was in Paris on October 9th of last year, which, I believe, recorded the highest single day rainfall in the city ever. Puddles, running streams of water, flooded metros. You stepped outside and everything you had with you got wet. Umbrellas bumped, tempers frayed. Today and every day this week are simply the flip of a coin that landed on the upside. It is a perfectly beautiful day in Paris!

Looking out in the morning, your gaze is drawn to the sunlight touching the dormers of the building across the street.



As for breakfast -- we're pivoting. When you pull into the hotel at 10 p.m. and get the kids to bed after that, after a full day of walking the streets of the city, you're going to have to allow for a late start the next day. Rather than do a full production breakfast downstairs, we have some croissants and coffees sent up to the room so they can wake up and bathe and munch all at the same time. This is the time being a grandmother, staying in a separate room cuts me some slack. While parents attend to the rituals of parenting, I go down for a quiet, solo breakfast.



I watch the couple at the next table -- Americans, both. She is obviously pregnant and I think -- all over the planet there are young people just starting on the grand journey of parenthood, not knowing what awaits them. These two are the lucky ones of course. They will be off to a good start. From a rich country, with solid pocket money (Paris, nice hotel). I hope they know that. You can't choose where you will have been born. Postwar Poland, with Soviet troops at the borders, house without electricity or indoor plumbing -- those were my first three years of life. And so many people have it so much worse! My dad got lucky. To his credit, he always appreciated it. My mom thought she had the most difficult life on the planet. My dad knew better. I know better. As I sit here now munching my pain au chocolat, I know damn well that all my efforts at getting to this point were nothing compared to the luck I've had that allowed me to be here, at this time, with my cappuccino and my croissants.

After my breakfast, I check in on the young family. Well there's a happy duo!

 


 

 

And we are off again! The goal today is to walk across the river to the islands (for the Notre Dame sighting)...

 


 

 

 (springtime in Paris....)


 

 

(a Paris souvenir)


 

 

(one more...)


 

 

(the lines to enter are too long, but the best stuff is really on the outside!)


 


... and a stroll over to the Isle Saint Louis... 

 

 (crossing over...)

 

.... and from there, all the way to the Place des Vosges. It's nearly an hour of walking, but the legs are strong, the sun is bright and for goodness sake, we are in Paris!

 

(playing the "let's find the icons" game which spread like wildfire all over Paris; you get the app and score points by finding the tiled icon on city walls...)






My daughter found a lunch place on the square, under the old arcades, one that also has exquisite classic French pastries. Carette. It actually has a long history in the city, but not in this neighborhood. This second one opened just recently so I forgive myself for never hearing about it.

It's the perfect place to have omelettes and club sandwiches of course. 

 


 

 

But the pieces de resistance are the pastries. And a hot chocolate served with chantilly cream on the side.







Juniper, however, prefers a bowl of red fruits!





After lunch, we watch the kids play by the fountain in the small park that is so much the gem of this very Parisian square.





Fountains and little kids are match made in heaven. And if you tell them "don't get wet!" they get a real thrill in letting the drops land "by accident" on them.



From there, they continue their stroll through the neighborhood. And I catch the bus back to the Left Bank. I need a pause. A review, a refresh. 


Not for long. Primrose and her mom and I have a date to look at kids clothes.



We pick dresses for her and her sister and t-shirts for the cousins.

 


 

 

And then the parents take off for an evening on the town. The kids are under my charge. 

I thought hard where to take them for dinner. Primrose is, of course, at an age where eating out is not a big deal. Juniper can also be positively angelic (and has been thus far) even when asked to sit still and quietly for the duration of a Parisian meal (which is always long). Or, she can be energetic and spunky. I decided Les Editeurs is a good bet. The menu is varied. The seating is spacious. And though it has a serious clientele, it isn't really stuffy. I remember one dinner there where I was babysitting Snowdrop (age 4) and Sparrow (age 1.5). Me and them. (I was younger!) All was fine until Smowdrop asked to use the bathroom. It's upstairs. She needed help getting there. I asked the waiter to keep an eye on Sparrow who was ensconced in some scribbles and ran up with her in my arms. (Way younger!)  Luckily, he never noticed our departure! I dont think I'd try that one again, but surely I can manage with a 3 year old and a 7 year old, right? Even if they most assuredly will be the only kids in the restaurant?

 


 

 

Phew! The entire dinner went way better than it might have. It helped that Les Editeurs has great burgers and fries. And that Juniper could steal all my mango from my Poke bowl. And whisk out every last bit of ketchup with her fries.

 


 

 

After, I take them to the Bucci neighborhood for ice cream.

 


 

 


 

There are many giggles on the walk home. Many. Giggles. And yes, it is very late by the time we come back to their rooms and even later before I got them to bed. Still, it was a winner evening. And a winner day!

It's a matter of good behavior, good training, good prep work, but mostly, let's face it -- it's a matter of plain old luck.

Exhale. And smile...

With so much love...

Tuesday, April 08, 2025

Paris

Such a beautiful April morning in Paris! Looking out, you have to be thrilled with a lineup of Parisian dormer windows against a blue sky!



We go down to breakfast. I'd say everyone is recovered from travel and sleep lags!



The plan for the day is for the young ones to go up to Montmartre -- because it is so much part of Parisian history and culture. But I stay back. Sure, I may regret it: doing stuff with the young family is always joyous. Nonetheless, I'm pacing myself. I have a couple of big days coming up, and I've been traveling a lot, and I think a down morning will be good for me. 

So where to, in my solo wanderings? Oh, to the park of course. With an open mind and a smile.

On the way, I pause at my jewelry store du jour. I nearly always pause here and admire earrings and necklaces.  They're locally made and not pricey. I pick one out. Madame asks me (they always ask me this here) -- where are you from? I tell her. It is true that, when asked, I never give a neutral response. There is always a note of disappointment in my voice. They always pick up on it. Here, the shop keeper was especially strong in her condemnation of what's in place right now across the ocean. Words such as fascist and king were used. I listen of course. They have a right to be angry at America right now. (But to the visitor -- me -- they are always kind. Pitying.)



And now the gardens. The Jardin Luxembourg isn't a monolith of sameness. On a weekday, each corner has its very unique visitors. For instance, in the northwest shady enclave, small groups meet up for different meditative exercises. Today I see several and I think -- were this my home, I would seek them out and try to join in.



This one seems to have retired men. Slowly raising their arms. So calm, so beautiful...



The pond is the hub where most visitors like to grab a chair. It's where families with kids gather for the sailboat races.





I sit here for a while, because in the morning, it's still rather empty. Pleasant for me. But soon I get up and walk over to what is really my favorite corner -- the south-west. On a weekday at lunch time (and it is lunchtime by now), local high school kids come here with their food...



But even with their vivaciousness and nonstop conversations, it is a quiet place, with plenty of empty chairs for those who want to just sit and read. Or look at the flowers.



Too, there are the birds: wrens, blackcaps, European robins. Great tits, blue tits and even a parakeet. So says my bird app. And this guy, who is rather silent.



From the park I go to a candy shop. That wasn't the goal. I'm actually in search of a cafe that isn't going to ask me to eat lunch (most cafes in France dont like beverage sippers between the hours of noon and 2:30). But here I am, next to this shop that carries my daughter's favorite caramels. I pick up a pack.



And now I go all the way back to the blocks that are so often my traipsing ground. 

 

 

 

Here, I know there is a coffee shop that just sells coffee. And a few small cakes to accompany it. (Cafe d'Auteur) It's perfect.



I'm back at the hotel by 2:30 and within a few minutes the young family returns. I hear about their morning (it was, predictably, very very nice), Juniper goes down for a nap.

The plan for the late afternoon is for as many of us as are awake to go to the Musee d'Orsay. For the Impressionists. Three qualify (and a fourth would, but someone has to stay back with a sleeping babe). 

Oh, this museum! Such a huge collection of beautiful stuff! There are bottlenecks of school groups, tour groups, and regular old us visitors, but honestly, you can weave your way away from the crowds and even pick your favorites and get photos by them...





And by the time we leave, it really has thinned out.

 


 

 

 


 

 

We leave when it's not quite the hour for dinner yet. It gives us time for a leisurely stroll through the Tuillerie Gardens across the river from the Orsay.

 


 

 

 

 

 

I used to regard these as second fiddle to my beloved Luxembourg Gardens, but I've learned not to compare. The Tuileries have their own special charm.

 


 


They will always have more people in them. Nevertheless, there's lots of peace to be found.

 


 

 

And they have lovely open air cafes for a predinner beverage. Cocktails, mocktails, pick your pleasure.

 


 

 

Juniper and her dad join us here. 





And of course, the big pleasure for the kids is the merry-go-round.

 

 

 

We got them three rides each -- horses, spinning cups, motorcycles -- they rode them all!

 


 

 And then the operator let them have one more ride for free. The girls were ecstatic.

But now it really is time for dinner. Tonight we try something new for me: Parisian food courts! We leave the park...

 


 

 

... and take the metro to the Montparnasse area and find our way to this very industrial looking dining hall. (The place is packed by the time we leave!)

 


 

It's all high tech stuff -- how you order, how you pay -- but it all works well. The adults all choose Vietnamese food, the two girls? Cheeseburgers!



Both Primrose and Juniper loved the place not only for the food, but for this:

 


 

And this:

 


 

It's a long walk home, but we do it! Spirits are high! Besides, it's downhill all the way. (Did you know that Paris is actually a little hilly?)

 

Each day in Paris offers something new. Even if you repeat a path, frequent a familiar store, it is guaranteed that you will experience something entirely extraordinary and different. And of course, add to it the persons you're with and you are in new and exciting territory! At the end of the day, I think -- so much was familiar ground for me and yet -- it was all so beautiful, new, extraordinary!

with love...